I didn’t want to start a new topic and this seemed a good fit, apologies if it’s in the wrong place. I’m looking for some advice, I’m new to the forum and have used a different account as me and my husband both use our main Lovehoney account for buying our goodies!
My husband wrote me a letter a week or so ago confessing his submissiveness and that he wants me to put him in chastity and even wants me to take the lead in our relationship. It obviously took him a lot to admit it all to me, but equally I’m a bit upset he’s felt he’s had to hold on to this desire for years.
We’ve spoken briefly since his long letter and he’s said he wants to give me some space and time to consider, he’s given me a few suggestions of books to read, one being “A Keyholder’s Guide to Male Chastity” but I’ve turned to google, but it’s a minefield, found a couple of fairly useful sites such as the guides on lockthecock.com and spoiledwife.net but beyond that, there seems to be a whole lot of information, porn and stuff that is obviously very male driven. I’m not some latex clad dominatrix nor do I want to be, anything else out there for your average woman who’s been sprung with this?
I’ve always been really open and willing to try new things, we’ve dabbled in me teasing him a little before but nothing like this and I’m worried it’s just not me and that I can’t do it. I’m really not bossy! So right now, I have this letter, a chastity device that looks pretty scary that he’s left with me and I’m confused and not sure what to do next. Help!!!