Cheating boyfriend?

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Reading all those posts and while the decision itself is easy, even though the actions definitely aren't.

However, I would agree with everything everyone else has said here. Whether he's cheating or not doesn't matter if he's treating you like this. I think that any man who tells his partner that they're worthless clearly has some issues! I know looks shouldn't count here but I can't imagine you would be short of attention.

I can only imagine that he either has his own esteem issues and needs to make you feel weak and unattractive, so that you don't feel that you can get better than him, or he gets off on this level of control knowing how you feel about him - that's bordering on sociopathic. If he's addicted to porn then that's his problem and I'm not sure that even if you helped him with it woud change your relationship.

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As its his place slight change, arrange for a place of your own, get some of your friends to move your gear out when he is at work. So the break is clean, he comes back to an empty property.

And yes I would still change the locks but I've been accused of being petty in the past

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MandiVonSweiss wrote:

rubysoho wrote:

none of this is making any sense now .

To be quite honest, she's clearly not getting the hint.

Strange type of troll?

GOTTA BE :/

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A lady as gorgeous as yourself (profile photo), and for that matter any woman, should not be treated like that. A person in any relationship needs to know they are loved and wanted and each give it 100%... That is how a relationship should be... To be saying what he says... He is not worth it, and excuse me for saying this, Trash! Need to see this and move on... Don't let time hurt you more, because that is all that will happen!

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Yeah, he's the sarcasm king. He says he won't change that, saying that he is what he is and won't change saying it's not his problem.

I'm being very patient to see if things get a bit better, and I've noticed yesterday that he is slowly "returning to normal" after our fight on the 30th.. less caring again.. beh.

By he way you can ask me anything if I'm not making sense in your opinion.. I'll clarify. ^^

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you are such a beauty xx

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Andreia wrote:

Yeah, he's the sarcasm king. He says he won't change that, saying that he is what he is and won't change saying it's not his problem.

I'm being very patient to see if things get a bit better, and I've noticed yesterday that he is slowly "returning to normal" after our fight on the 30th.. less caring again.. beh.

By he way you can ask me anything if I'm not making sense in your opinion.. I'll clarify. ^^

You can't change him. I'm sorry, but you can't. People think they can change their partners or are always hanging on to see if things improve. This is only heading one way. Stay with him if you want a dogs life but if you value yourself in any way just leave and don't look back.

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Agree completely Sexynurse09

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sexynurse09 wrote:

Andreia wrote:

Yeah, he's the sarcasm king. He says he won't change that, saying that he is what he is and won't change saying it's not his problem.

I'm being very patient to see if things get a bit better, and I've noticed yesterday that he is slowly "returning to normal" after our fight on the 30th.. less caring again.. beh.

By he way you can ask me anything if I'm not making sense in your opinion.. I'll clarify. ^^

You can't change him. I'm sorry, but you can't. People think they can change their partners or are always hanging on to see if things improve. This is only heading one way. Stay with him if you want a dogs life but if you value yourself in any way just leave and don't look back.

Had a work mate like that married to a stunning and charming Polish woman, after we visited them for a weekend my wife said when she understands fully how he tales the michael out of her she will leave him....And she did. My wife and I often gently take the mick out of each other...but never anything hurtful

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Andreia wrote:

Yeah, he's the sarcasm king. He says he won't change that, saying that he is what he is and won't change saying it's not his problem.

I'm being very patient to see if things get a bit better, and I've noticed yesterday that he is slowly "returning to normal" after our fight on the 30th.. less caring again.. beh.

By he way you can ask me anything if I'm not making sense in your opinion.. I'll clarify. ^^

You can't and shouldn't expect to change him.

However, his attitude stinks. Sarcasm is fine, but when people close get hurt, then any decent person tones down their words because they dont want to hurt them. Your fella doesn't seem to care about anyone other than himself. He has no reason to change because yiu are a willing doormat

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On a side note, remember what I told you all about his female workmate bringing him food. Yesterday we had a fight regarding it.

Started with " Do you want to take a kick on your butt? Why did you have to ask her why she brings me food, she brings alot to her and if she wants she can share with me what's the problem?!" Which I asked, - Does she only share it only with you or does she share with everyone

* he shrughs here* "Well, she shares with me when she wants but she can also share with everyone else if she wants"

-Oh, she she shares it manly with you to please you, eh?

" You should've asked me first rather than asking her"

-I did, but you didn't care and even made fun of me on teamspeak with our friends!

" Doesn't matter, you embarresed me at work, maybe you want me to write a note and give it to her saying to have sex for we to be officially putting the horns, will you be happy this way"

- It was supposed to be only a question to her, because I found it weird, seemed like she wanted to please you, not to you, and it stopped there when I got the reply.

" She showed me the text you sent her"

- And then, what's the problem, I have it too on my cellhpone, what about it? And why are you defending her?

" Well, this stops here, work problems are going to stay work problems, that's how it's gonna be now".

- Well, whatever, you're my boyfriend, you're not supposed to be pleased by other woman rather than me, idiot.

" Yeah yeah, whatever, idiot."

Annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd he bolted to the computer.

That was my yesterday night.

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Ditch him this proves it, he's. a emotional. vampire.

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dump him.... really.. he ant going to change or respect u. dump him. let her deal with him.. if she's not already..

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You seem very young. There is life outside crap relationships.

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excuse me but for people living together this seems more than a little bit childish

and by that I mean do you want to spend the rest of your life playing this cr*p

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gunther wrote:

excuse me but for people living together this seems more than a little bit childish

and by that I mean do you want to spend the rest of your life playing this cr*p

it really is .

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After this fight, he keeps playing around with the theme joyfully, if I don't do things asap, like " Oh, ler the other girl come take care of this or that if you can't".

Well, I am 24 years old..

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Ok.....is it just me??? I'm not sure what more you want any of us to say about this...I don't think we can be any clearer on what we think you should do. The decision is yours.

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1 million time agree sexynurse09! Just dump him!!!! Andreia he don't respect you, he don't care about you, he's made that very clear, But your just not listening to everyone. You deserve so much more better and you will do better but not before you get rid of him!

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Lollipop ;) wrote:

1 million time agree sexynurse09! Just dump him!!!! Andreia he don't respect you, he don't care about you, he's made that very clear, But your just not listening to everyone. You deserve so much more better and you will do better but not before you get rid of him!

Hi Andreia

I agree with Lollipop and sexynurse, at the end of the day you have to make that scary decision, and you alone. You deserve better for the simple reason that no-one should be treated as he treats you. He does not deserve you.

Leave him and don't look back.