I'm normally a very submissive person in the bedroom and my Oh is the dominant one,but we have been taking about me and him have sex with a strap on for a while adn we've decided to take the plunge,so to speak.
We've bought the Sportsheets New Cummers Strap-On Starter Kit (Black) beacuse to me it look less threnning than other kits and more likey to fit,I'm a big girl. We've also bought The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex to help ease my fears.the book has helped but I@m still worried.
I've played with his ass plenty times before with plugs etc,even used the didlo from the set on him last night but I'm mixed up about going the whole hog.
I want to,and I'm excited to but yet I'm still worried I'll mess up.To be honest I felt the same way whe i lost my virginity to him.
so as anyone any tips to help me realx into it? Other than get drunk,which while sounding good would be a very very bad idea.
I guess it's a case of taking it slow and not giving yourself unrealistic targets, just enjoy whatever happens, and of course, lube, lube and more lube.,...
Slow is def on the plan,very slow. more so I don't scare myself, and panic and overthink,which often happens when we try new things.
One good piont that make sme feel a bit mroe relaxed is that neither of us are anal virgins and we both enjoy havint tosy,or in my case my Oh ,in them. Its the whole actully being able to use my whole body in it not just my arm that freaking me out a little.