So I'd like some advice on pegging. I know this topic has been brought up before, but it'll be my first time actually doing it. I'm wondering what are some good beginner strapons to try out and any advice/tips that could make everything go smoothly. I'm nervous about the whole thing because I'm fairly shy when it comes to sexual things (I know I need to get over that), but since he brought it up I decided why not give it a try. I'm wondering if he's ready for it because when we tried before it had to be dark & he got weird about eye contact lol. It wasn't a successful try & we just did other stuff at that point. Do you think we should wait? I'm not sure if he's 100% comfortable or if he thinks I think he's gay or something because he wants to try it.I'm just a little confused, but I want know that I'm doing it right. I also want us both to be comfortable because it shouldn't be weird, just fun and pleasurable. Thanks for any & all advice/tips.
I don't think anything different of him, I mean I know how it feel from the receiving end. I thought one day he would suggest it, but I know some people jump to those thoughts. I just want him to be comfortable with the whole thing & if he doesn't like it then we don't have to do it. I am glad I'm not the only one in this same situation thought .
Oh and let me know how it goes! I'd love to know if you were comfortable with it, so I have something to compare to 
hahaha nothing wrong with a few drinks to loosen you up. I know when we tried anal (me on the receiving end) I had a few drinks lol. I say just take it slow & steady.
yea I think talking about it more will probably be the best way to go, but he always seems embarassed to even talk about it lol.
We found the beginners one too flexible as it's a jelly like material and the actual harness is just elasticated so stretched too much which meant I couldn't get a good rhythm. Plus being on the smaller side the harness was generally too big.
The advanced one has a fantastic harness which has a slot for a bullet but also leaves you accessible unlike the beginners which is more like wearing a pair of underwear so covers bits instead.
And ease into it with fingers (lube, lube, lube) take it slow at first and make sure to communicate We find doggy style works well purely for the fact he can ease himself onto the dildo at his own pace as well.
Have fun!
There's plenty more tips and suggestions on the other pegging posts so be sure to take a look through them
Nothing to do with being gay so he shouldn't worry. I'm straight but love my wife fisting me, using toys on me and pegging me. My favoured weapon of choice is the Doc Johnson vac u lock system as per my avatar. It is the fact that it is my wife doing it to me that is probably the biggests turn on.
went very well the hubby certinally enjoyed his first pegging session i think we are going to need a bigger toy though
plus the strap was too small and cut into me we are thinking maybe we should of gone for the bigger size toy with the ajustable strap xxx
We have spent a small fortune on trying out various dildoes and harnesses and finished up making several harnesses from scratch to get exactly what we wanted.