Hi there
A curious thread really.
i have never experienced an orgasm through penetration, only through clitoral stimulation.
Is an orgasm through penetration the same sensation as a clitoral orgasm?
Any tips on how to achieve one through penetration?
We may need a bit more background into your "problem" such as age and experience,are you in a relationship, what have you tried by way of attempting to achieve a penetrative orgasm etc etc.
There are threads on various sites on how what seems to be quite a high % of women dont/cant orgasm thru penetrative sex and for different reasons so your not on your own on this.
I can only guess as a guy that apart from intensity, that a penetrative orgasm is something similar in that nerve endings are involved, I`ve had partners who have had better clitoral orgasms than penetrative in intensity, chest reddenning breath spasming etc etc and I`ve had a partner who came explosively and on a couple of occasions, not quite multiply but over a 15-20 minute period and I`ve had a partner who said that a clitoral orgasm mixed with ass play, slightly penetrative was amongst the best she`d ever had.
If your getting enough satisfaction from clitoral orgasms you might find penetrative different or a let down or the best yet, as at the start we`d need more info, age/experience probably as much as anything.
Quite hoping I`ll get shot down and you`ll get comments that may help more but as I said its from a guys viewpoint. Some women might say we know nowt lol, I think I saw a post alleging someones lover reckoning she`d faked all her orgasms lol.
I can have both although I've never given myself anything other than a clitoral orgasm. My OH can give me a full orgasm within minutes yet no matter how hard I try alone can't have anything else :-(
It depends what you mean by "orgasm" as to me an orgasm is when I squirt and I've never had one without squirting. It feels a million times better than a clitoral although I do still have to have a clitoral once a day xx
I've never orgasmed through penetration sex either. only clitoral. So your not alone.
Lollipop ;) wrote:
I've never orgasmed through penetration sex either. only clitoral. So your not alone.
same here
Same for my wife too. Only clitoral orgasms.
I can orgasm from both. Clitoral orgasms for me are stronger and faster and I can only have g spot orgasms through my husband using his fingers in a sort of come here motion very quickly. His penis doesn't make me orgasm though and that's just because my g spot is sort of round the corner and my husband has a straight penis.
I think it's quite common to not orgasm from penetrative sex as a lot of women's nerve endings are not stimulated in the right way but I don't have any problem using toys at the same time and hubby loves the sensation too.
i guess it's all about doing what wors for you and not being embarrassed or shy about talking and experimenting.
So I guess my tip would be get your partner to insert two fingers with palm up, make a come here motion with his fingers and then rub very fast and quite hard, you can see the action if you check out squirting porn videos. Hth.
only ever clitorial, which I find frustrating. Love my G spot touched, but dont orgasm.
I find it hard to orgasm with my OH touching me, but no problems if I do it myself. I surpose I hit the exact spot I like, where I find I have to concentrate a bit more if my OH is touching it as the pressure isn't the same that I like or the exact position.
Have tried rabits etc, which work, but realise it's the clitorial stimulation I need, although the orgasm I get from using the rabit is intense.
(Shhhhhhhhhhhhh, whisper this) us poor shmuck guys dont in the main have much of a clue where the right spot or even if we`re doing it right when it comes to a womans clitoris, that is unless you girls tell us !
I enjoyed a relationship wherein I`d put the head of my circumcised "equipment" flat against my ex`s vaginal lips and stimulate her clitoris with the tip just as tho we were having sex, most every time to orgasm, she said it was such a turn on as tho I was fucking her most erogenous zone, could at a whim engage in vaginal sex and be lubricated at the same time, remarked that tho she`d had boyfriends and a husband that she`d never had, nor thought that she could be gotten to orgasm in such a way lol, and thats without venturing anywhere near to the $64 million dollar conundrum of the g-spot lol.
If you cant orgasm thru penetrative sex then tell us if we`re doing it right, tell if we`re so much as a hairs breadth off, tell us if you like a straight finger, tell us if you prefer a left-right wiggle, a circular rub, a hooked finger coming up from your moist vagina, hard pressure, soft touching, warm breaths if we`re between your legs with toys at the ready, if you think that your own juices are ample or if you like the sensation of warm oil or even an oil/gel mix to aid slipperiness lol, sex in all it`s forms should be about fun and experimentation and if needs be gentle guidance.
If he`s anything like the sensitive lover you all crave aspire and are worthy of he/we`ll take note, be educated and not be offended lol.
We`re both here for one anothers pleasure
trailerguy61 wrote:
(Shhhhhhhhhhhhh, whisper this) us poor shmuck guys dont in the main have much of a clue where the right spot or even if we`re doing it right when it comes to a womans clitoris, that is unless you girls tell us !
I enjoyed a relationship wherein I`d put the head of my circumcised "equipment" flat against my ex`s vaginal lips and stimulate her clitoris with the tip just as tho we were having sex, most every time to orgasm, she said it was such a turn on as tho I was fucking her most erogenous zone, could at a whim engage in vaginal sex and be lubricated at the same time, remarked that tho she`d had boyfriends and a husband that she`d never had, nor thought that she could be gotten to orgasm in such a way lol, and thats without venturing anywhere near to the $64 million dollar conundrum of the g-spot lol.
If you cant orgasm thru penetrative sex then tell us if we`re doing it right, tell if we`re so much as a hairs breadth off, tell us if you like a straight finger, tell us if you prefer a left-right wiggle, a circular rub, a hooked finger coming up from your moist vagina, hard pressure, soft touching, warm breaths if we`re between your legs with toys at the ready, if you think that your own juices are ample or if you like the sensation of warm oil or even an oil/gel mix to aid slipperiness lol, sex in all it`s forms should be about fun and experimentation and if needs be gentle guidance.
If he`s anything like the sensitive lover you all crave aspire and are worthy of he/we`ll take note, be educated and not be offended lol.
We`re both here for one anothers pleasure.
Couldn't agree more, sorry for the cliche` but it takes two... Try to relax and not focus and worrry aboutit two and then when it happens boy you'll know.
Ooops kinda did that wrong lol, bloody computers....
