Does oral give women the best orgasms?

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In my experience, it just depends on how a woman is feeling at that specific time.
Sometimes my wife will reach “O” with tounge on clit stimulation, others it requires G-spot stimulation at the same time.
Either way i’m delighted to oblige, but my tongue doesnt buzz like a vibrator, so does Oral give the best orgasm? It just depends on how she feels and how good the vibrator is.

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Not for me. Cant stand receiving oral :unamused:. “Fingering” (hate that word) gives me the best, full on, intense orgasms.

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I struggle personally unless i have both the clitoral and g spot stimulation at the same time.
I have been like this since having my child, oral feels great but i think my partners jaw hurt as it a good 15mins down there and still wasnt orgasming even though the sensation was amazing, it wasnt until he put a few fingers in, then i came.

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I don’t like it either, i’m very self conscious so it makes me really tense. I don’t think it would do much for me even if i did get over the self consciousness. We’ve tried a couple of times but i’d rather not bother!

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What do you mean? xx

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Morning @Sophie01 I read back the thread from the start. You posted the above in March 21. Just pleased your experiences have improved x

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ahhhhh haha, omg that’s crazy to look back on now! xx

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@Sophie01 I have those moments all the time. Amazing how much can change in a 12 month x

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Doesnt really help matters that I did let a guy go down on me a few years ago and he bit my clit :unamused::nauseated_face::flushed:

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YES!! It’s all about clitoral stimulation for me :drooling_face:

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For me it is definitely my Hitachi wand that gives me the most powerful orgasms followed by oral. PIV and me masturbating on my own are tied for 3rd place!

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Lets say “manual stimulation” ? Its a bit ‘out there’ but my wife at times really gets off with a metal rod in her urethra as it stimulates the nervers running to the clit more so than a tongue

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What is the reason you hate it.?
Im genuinely interested.
My wife does enjoy , but only at certain times.

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Idk. I guess I’ve just had really bad experiences with it which has really put me off. My current sexual partner doesn’t particularly enjoy oral sex either way so I don’t feel like I’m missing anything :woman_shrugging:

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Fair enough… i find it particularly intimate, but each to their own.
Sorry to hear you had unpleasant experiences.

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