Okay guys todays sexual topic' Does size really matter?
I can appriciate some people have massive wangers, some medium, some small, some thick, In a womens view what feels best for you in your personal experiences?, Obviously it all depends on how the guy also treats you with it, You don't want him going straight in and bagging you until your sore, I mean personally I am avererage 6 and a half inches, I Like to think My other half loves it when we make love, Whats your views ladys? D
It's not the size of the boat. It's the motion of the ocean. In all fairness, I am an averaged sized guy and no complaints from the OH (Not bragging). Toy wise our biggest is 9 inches which is a bit too much for her, unless really excited. Her favourite vibe is only small too. It's only got a 4 inch insertable length as it hits her G spot well.
depends on the female, but usually not really, hell even pornstars dont care about size
Vagina’s are all different sizes, have differing strengths in pc muscles and sit at different angles as well as vagina owners having differing sexual preferences such as wanting a full feeling, liking deep or shallow penetration and their favourite positions, if they need other stimulation during penetration (like using a butt plus) as well as how gentle or rough they like it. Couple that with how the penis owner uses their equipment and the answer becomes “sometimes, but not in the way you think”
I've had this discussion alot with girlfriends, female friends and just people in general. It does. I have had alot of females saying they'd run away from a penis if it was to big. I've had a couple tell me it's a no go and I'm not that big. My name refers to my height btw.
Again, like others have said, it all depends on the person involved (the man and their partner). Am I going to lie and say it doesn't matter at all to me? No. I am a bit of a size queen and enjoy a big, girthy partner as it's easier for me to have an orgasm internally with them. That doesn't mean I'm not satisfied or am disappointed with a smaller partner though, just that a bit more work might need to go into it. Size only matters to a point but care and attention in bed are absolutely necessary.
Size doesn’t matter depending on the receiver, obviously you get some size queens who love a big toy or dong as that’s what they like. But as far as pleasure and emotions it’s more down to the connection you have, if you unattractive both physically and mentally to someone then it’s going to take a long while to get them off. If however you have a happy relationship and connect with your partner then it’s more likely to cause orgasm. Bottom line is even if your packing a baseball bat down your trousers it’s not going to guarantee an orgasm and most female and male friends who are quite sexually active have always said the bigger ones are usually uncomfortable and are usually attached to an overgrown ego. You can also search the forums as this is a common topic and has plenty of older answers and ideas ☺️
I do think it's all about personal preference. I've had both small, medium and big. Small just doesn't really hit enough spots for me unfortunately, medium is probably my most favourite, it hits the right spots enough for me whereas big is just too much, I hate the feeling of having a cervix bashing pretty much, it just hurts and doesn't feel great. I do prefer thickness rather than length though, having the thickness helps me to feel more full too!
Hmm...not really. It depends on my mood. If I want to be filled, I'll bring out the big toys but most of the time I am satisfied with the medium/average size toys.
My boyfriend thinks I'm turning into a size queen but I think he cares more about size than me, lol.
Yes, size does matter. Bigger isn't always better - each woman will have a size that does what she wants. For example, I'm much more of a girth girl. He needs to have enough girth to fill me and rub all the right places (indeed, my husband does). I'm less bothered about length. I know some women who are the other way, so each to your own.
How well you use it is also important. One of the biggest cocks I've had was on one of the most selfish lovers I've had, so it was very unsatisfying.
Maybe I’ve been unlucky, but I’ve had a few failed experiences, when getting intimate with a new partner and , they say ‘oh......it’s a bit big isn’t it’ ‘it’s too wide’ blah blah blah! So, it’s not all that important, some don’t like too large, some do I guess.
I think it's a bit like buying a new car, big ones look fantastic but probably more awkward to park. 😂 I have said it before, for me too big is most definitely worse than too small. An ex of mine was massive and it took me so long to "prepare" it was definitely not sexy! But as others say we are all different.
@Mrs.John 😭 I was hoping for moral support! Errrr.....I’ve a GSOH though! (Good job)
Sorry my friend, I'm sure I'm the exception and most people love a big un 😁JoeyJoeJoe wrote:
@Mrs.John 😭 I was hoping for moral support! Errrr.....I’ve a GSOH though! (Good job)
Ask 100 women you'll get 100 answers haha. Personally I like deep penetration, but my g spot isn't very far in at all. So I prefer a long one, but a short one would still work 😉 As for girth, I like a full feeling so wouldn't want a slim one. I'm lucky that I have a partner that is long and thick, so it suits me well.
My other half would like me to have a reduction!! Hopefully she’s joking.
Size doesn't really matter, it's what they do with their cocks that counts. But too big or too small isn't much fun.
If you read the reviews of the larger dildos here on LH you may get the impression that size does matter but perhaps they are from a self-selecting group of ladies who knew they would like them before they bought one.
If not, any man of normal dimensions is perhaps best advised to give these reviews a miss.
Size dosnt matter ,, I got a brilliant tounge that does nearly all the buisness ( still only 6inches with a 5 inch girth ) Works for most women
I asked my lady her views, she says size doesn't matter. It all depends on feelings towards each other. She tells me I have larger girth than average, which caused us some problems when we first tried anal. Now we have worked out the need for adequate lube, she has a preference for anal (but still loves vaginal as well). We are very close emotionally, so we talk a lot about our needs and likes, I guess like other close partners.