My hubby wants us to have a threesome with another man but I'm not really up for it!
Is there anything just as exciting for men that I can do instead! I want to surprise him tomorrow! Thanks in advance xx
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My hubby wants us to have a threesome with another man but I'm not really up for it!
Is there anything just as exciting for men that I can do instead! I want to surprise him tomorrow! Thanks in advance xx
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macspants wrote:
A back to back Evil Dead movie marathon. Hail To The King, BabySexy shell wrote:
My hubby wants us to have a threesome with another man but I'm not really up for it!
Is there anything just as exciting for men that I can do instead! I want to surprise him tomorrow! Thanks in advance xx
Lmao at this..
To OP, if you are not comfortable with this situation you should really be honest and let him know before it goes to far. You should never be forced into something that you arent 100% comfortable with, especially something like this as it could potentially damage your relationship if it goes too far.
As a quick fix you could try watching some mfm porn together or why not try a realistic dildo? The Vixskin range are amazing (I really cannot recommend them enough) as they are so soft and like the real thing. This way you could try double penetration or even some blind fold/role play senarios.
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Really do tell him though, as it might end up making you feel uncomfortable.
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with x
I agree with Wildcherry & NatandTom, if you don't want to/feel uncomfortable then you don't do it, even if it is to please your partner, you come first. I had the same issue, for months I was pestered abut a threesome & it caused negativety between us because I refused.
I'd say talk to him about it & see if there is anyhting else he'd like that you'd feel comfortable to do ^_^ x
Hi Sexy Shell. As already said, dont do anything that you do not want to do but at the same time make sure that your oh clearly knows that you do not want a threesome so that there is no misunderstanding or expectation that you may consider it. Each to their own ofcourse, however for me personally, I dont think that I would ever be comfortable to share my wife with another man and the thought alone of it every physically happening makes me go cold to the core although as a fantasy , I less objectionable to the idea. How serious is your oh about this and do you know whether or not he has already discussed this with the potential 3rd person ? Would the 3rd person be a friend or someone professional or found on a night out etc? Has your oh had a threesome before or is this a new challenge for him too?
B52 wrote:
Hi Sexy Shell. As already said, dont do anything that you do not want to do but at the same time make sure that your oh clearly knows that you do not want a threesome so that there is no misunderstanding or expectation that you may consider it. Each to their own ofcourse, however for me personally, I dont think that I would ever be comfortable to share my wife with another man and the thought alone of it every physically happening makes me go cold to the core although as a fantasy , I less objectionable to the idea. How serious is your oh about this and do you know whether or not he has already discussed this with the potential 3rd person ? Would the 3rd person be a friend or someone professional or found on a night out etc? Has your oh had a threesome before or is this a new challenge for him too?
I agree I could or would not share my wife with anybody and a man that thinks its ok in my opinion thinks very little of the relationship and if he carrys on wanting it to happen against your wishes needs getting rid of
+1 to this. I would think of out as a fantasy but would never do it with the oh. But it is each to there own.if your not comfortable as stated before dont duo out and your husband should respect your wishes.D.j wrote:
B52 wrote:
Hi Sexy Shell. As already said, dont do anything that you do not want to do but at the same time make sure that your oh clearly knows that you do not want a threesome so that there is no misunderstanding or expectation that you may consider it. Each to their own ofcourse, however for me personally, I dont think that I would ever be comfortable to share my wife with another man and the thought alone of it every physically happening makes me go cold to the core although as a fantasy , I less objectionable to the idea. How serious is your oh about this and do you know whether or not he has already discussed this with the potential 3rd person ? Would the 3rd person be a friend or someone professional or found on a night out etc? Has your oh had a threesome before or is this a new challenge for him too?
I agree I could or would not share my wife with anybody and a man that thinks its ok in my opinion thinks very little of the relationship and if he carrys on wanting it to happen against your wishes needs getting rid of
Very simple for us: don't want to = no. We have many weird and far out fantasies, but, that's what they are and remain. Never be pushed into something, if you doubt something it usually means you don't want to do it. Nerves on the other hand are a different thing completely. Always choose what's best for you
first rule of Threesomes:
ALL THREE PEOPLE should WANT to be involved.
Just Jenson wrote:
first rule of Threesomes:
ALL THREE PEOPLE should WANT to be involved.
+1 to this
one thing you could try is using a toy in place of an actual third person, i.e dildo for you if you want a MMF threesome or use a male masturbator in place of another female x
Don't want to then don't. Simple as that.
If you are not comfortable and do it the I cannot see how you ever get any trust back in your relationship
I would ask him (uncritically) why he wants to do it so much and find any alternative fantasy u are both comfortable with.
Personally I don't think you necessarily need to offer him up a compromise. What he asked you is a big deal for most people.
Dali256 wrote:
Just Jenson wrote:
first rule of Threesomes:
ALL THREE PEOPLE should WANT to be involved.
+1 to this
+2 Definitely dont do anything that you are not comfortable with.
but if both did want a threesome where would be the best place to look? for mfm and fmf. let me know if you have good ideas please
Lovehoney - Lannah wrote:
Dali256 wrote:
Just Jenson wrote:
first rule of Threesomes:
ALL THREE PEOPLE should WANT to be involved.
+3 to this thread. Never do something you feel uncomfortable with!
+1 to this
+2 Definitely dont do anything that you are not comfortable with.
I am also going to say this: Anyone who wants threesome needs to realize all three!!! people involved must want to be ok with it and want to be involved.
Otherwise, it will just lead to hurt and problems inside the relationship.
If you have doubts don't do it ,Only ever do it if your 100% sure you want to xx
Pegging! You could use it to your advantage! Buy a strap-on and surprise him, he will either love the idea and thats your great surprise or he will run a mile as "he won't be up for it" prove a point!Sexy shell wrote:
My hubby wants us to have a threesome with another man but I'm not really up for it!
Is there anything just as exciting for men that I can do instead! I want to surprise him tomorrow! Thanks in advance xx