hi their this is my first thread , really need for some advise and u lot seem very knowledgeable and expearanced, pls help
my hubby and i have been talking about having a 3some for years (with another man), the thought really turns us both on!
Problem is i don't know if i should or not, he is the only man i've slept with (might be why hubby wants it) and i kinda like that, we've got our sex toys and porn and i am up for trying anything once, but i don't know if this is a step too far.
im expecting our first baby and if we was to go ahead with it it would be in a few years, not sure if i'll still feel the same about it once had the baby!
cheers sweetlove, been reading through them just and think their is still alot of other things to tick off my list before this one unless anyone has any possitives for it?
if you hve the feeling it will mess things up it is probably best not ot go through with it. one idea is if you have a willing thrid party is to get one of those clone a willy kits, before you do it with him.
i'm not saying never, after all that is your descision but i thinkit isnt one you should make lightley
Jus thought i'd give you my opinion.... I would have personally said go for it if you think your relationship is strong enough, but the fact that you're having a baby changes a lot.
I just think that if there's any risk of a 3some having any negative effects on your relationship, then it's not worth the risk! I guess you're gonna have to satisfy yourself with a big dildo inside you with your husband in the other!