Hey everyone! I’m recently interested in trying pegging. I’ve always enjoyed a little anal play but like the idea of my wife being able to have the control I typically have. I saw a double ended dildo strap on. One end in her and one for me. Does anyone have any experience or suggestions on this subject? I’d love to hear stories or any advice you might have for a first time.
This is the one I’ve been looking at purchasing:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29012
Hello AMcouple5231,
We have a beginner's guide that may be a good start: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/buyers-guide/pegging-the-easy-guide-to-anal-sex-for-men/
Also, this is such a popular topic I am sure other members will be able to contribute to help :)
Hey AMcouple,
We have tried plenty of strap ons for pegging and double penetration and the truth is, if you can get the position right it will feel great for both ends with a double ended one like the link you posted, but if you can’t get the right position or get comfortable it’s pretty useless. We found using a harness and my partner having a plug far more comfortable. We tend to use vibrating strap ons now though as she prefers the clitoral vibration.
A harness like this one for instance:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37884
You can then get a dildo that suits you for penetration and your partner can use a plug or dildo that suits her. Otherwise I would try and find a double ended dildo which is slightly more flexible as we had the fetish fantasy one a while back and it was just far too solid to allow any decent pegging positioning.
Others may have had a better experience but it’s just what we have felt, the strapless ones are great too if your partner likes G-spot penetration
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/double-strap-ons/
Thanks for the how to guide. It looks like it has some good information. And thanks for the personal experience and recommendations. I have some exploring to do.
We would recommend the feeldoe or similar. The sharevibe is also excellent.
You might find that a harness might also be necessary for more adventurous positions.
It all depends on the both of you.
My oh likes to peg me sometimes with the feeldoe or sometimes with just a normal strap on.
Each to their own.
Have fun!