Hello everyone, perhaps not the nicest of first topics, but after doing my first using the Clean Stream Deluxe Shower Enema Set (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22625), I'm not sure how I feel about what I was doing and what just happened.
Apologies for any graphic details in the post but I suppose this is the place to ask if any.
Not as easy as its made out to be and I feel like the on-ste how-to guide is missing some crucial information. So I'd really appreciate feedback from both guys and girls.
So connected it up to my shower easy enough but the tubing just about reached from nmy shower controls to my ass. Thought I'd start by lying down, but then I was too far down to reach to turn the water off after 30 seconds or so. Same with lying on my side. If I'd had a willing partner to turn the water on and off, the whole experience would have been much more relaxing. Does anyone agree on this, or is in that fortunate postion.
Opted to get on my knees right under the shower control and put my head down and butt up as much as tubing would allow. Took 20 to 30 seconds on first go, 45 seconds by the third and final go on a steady warm temperature.
So I clenched when inserted and when pressure got too much pulled out and relaxed.
DO YOU make a point of pushing to expel the water each time or just relax after clenching and let it naturally flow.
DO YOU relube each time? I had to. Wasn't expecting this process to deplete my lube so much.
Third time I held longest and felt the urge to use the loo. Lots and lots of brown liqiod discharge and had to go three times before I settled.
DO YOU do it this way? -- as to my earlier question, if i pushed after each insertion surely the shower would get very dirty, this way it all ended in the toilet.
DO YOU insert again after going to the toilet? I read its good to insert until the water runs clear and lots of people saying they do4 or 5 inserts. Water was 95% clear while going in the shower, it was only after the third go I had to rush to the toilet and that would have made a HUGE MESS in the shower. Wondering if I then do it a fourth time to do a final clean after using the toilet.
(UPDATE) After a sufficent wait did it a fourth time. No mess in the shower but back on the toilet. Still a lot of brown but not half as messy. DO I really have to do it 5+ times until I go to the loo and all that's coming out is white water? Worried about re-inserting too many times, and frankly using too much lube, taking too much time. Has been about 80mins with the first 3 insertions 25/30 minute wait, back in shower, 4th insertion, 10 minute wait till using the toilet again.
DO YOU wait awhile before inserting again in the same session if you've had to use the toilet? I waited about 25 minutes for my body to feel normal again after quite a powerful evaccation
DO YOU or should you expect it to get less messy each time? Was quite alarmed at the amonunt of muck and that I had to use the toilet 3 times.
DO YOU do an enema the day of sex or half an hour/an hour beforehand if the situation allows?
DO YOU perform an enema every day/every other day if you're having sex evey day/every other day or is it more of a twice weekly thing.
DO YOU regulary give yourself an enema if you're not having sex for weeks on end? Once a week or more if it's only for general cleanliness rather than combating health problems, headaches etc
DO YOU feel like having sex after an enema? Do it solo was certainly not sexy in any way and 40mins later I still feel rather fragile. Does this change over time as you get more used to it? I suppose if you did it in the afternoon, only to eat an evening meal and THEN have sex might defeat the point somewhat.
DO YOU do this in bed? I've read about people lying on their beds to do this (the shower was NOT comfortable), but my bed is nowhere near a sink/shower and I can't imagine that could end well. Too great a risk of mess. Anyone do this successfuly?
DO YOU eat particular food the day before an enema, morning of? Again, I suppose this depends on how often you do them weekly/monthly, but would like to get your thoughts.
Understanding that everyone is different, I expect the range of answers to be illuminating and very helpful. I know it's not supposed to be an enjoyable experience, but maybe it can be?
Just hoping that hasn't put me off using my first set of anal beads tonight, or to any unfortunate mess due to feeling loose/fragile.
Many thanjs everyone in advance,