Wasn't quite sure what to call the post! Just wanted to get some feedback on what everyone fantasises or thinks about when masturbating?
Is it a focus on what your doing, a memory of a previous encounter, your partner or even someone else?
For me it's usually my partner or a celebrity...Although once it was a mutual friend of ours (shhh though!)
I think I must be a really weird person because I only think and focus on the task at hand. My ex boyfriend thought I was weird for not thinking about anything special when I masturbate 😄
I usually only think about/focus on the task at hand too. My other half says he focuses on experiences we've had :)
This is what my OH says too...In fairness us guys don't need to focus so much as the end result is inevitable.
With my ex husband I used to pretend that his friends (who I didn't fancy at all) would touch me and I would guess who it was or that he would expose me and spank me infront of them and he would order me to do things!
Recently I recall things that I have done or want to do with him as our sex life is so incredible x
I think about fantasies I would like to fulfill.
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Just imagine what im going to do to my OH later, what toys i might use and how much she is going to beg me.
Things we've done, things we may do in the future. Or I look at my hubbys photos and videos. Other times I watch porn and imagine whatever they are doing is happening to me but I'm very visual I think, for a woman anyway.
Id like to be handcuffed to a chair and be sexually teased until I break, I'll love you for it as well.
Usually just the task at hand! I need a clear mind to get mine. Sometimes I might think about past experiences, but they tend to clutter, so I try to focus on the feelings those experiences brought rather than the action...if that makes sense! OH says he thinks about things we've done of things he'd like us to do.
I was in a cafe a couple of months ago when a very attractive woman sat on the table near me smiled at me. At the time I thought nothing about this and just smiled back. Was in the cafe for over an hour. The lady kept smiling at me and I noticed she had a short skirt on. Could not miss how she was dressed as she was right in front of me. However it became obvious she was exposing herself to me opening her legs and clearly had no knickers on
At first I thought she had done this by mistake but she was smiling and exposing herself to me at the same time. I could not move. When she finally left she opened he legs so wide ( when getting up ) and gave me a long sexy smile
I can't get this thought out of my mind. Do I need help am I normal ?
what do you think ?
For me it depends, if it's watching porn then that takes over. Otherwise it's usually something me and the Mrs have done, maybe her dressed up teasing me etc.
I usually have on porn of someone else masturbating and I will mimic what they do. If not i just focus in the task at hand.
I'm another blank. Sometimes horny thoughts pass through my head while I'm mastrubating but I don't tend to fantasise as such
It's always my OH. We live apart so I crave her, she's always on my mind. Usually it's her send sexy texts that really helps me when I play otherwise memories of our physical encounters.
Tried thinkig of my wife or things we have done but always end up just concentrating on the job in hand unless i'm masturbating with my wife in which case i'm deciding where on her body I will come
I came to this thread once and didn't post because it was embarrassing, but I've come back a second time thinking what the hell, nobody knows who I am.
As a haphephobe desperately longing to overcome my phobia, one of my deepest fantasies is to meet someone else who is equally afraid of touch and to overcome it together. The thought of unlocking such pleasures with someone who understood and shared my problem so that we could take all the time in the world to get past it...well, that really does it for me when I picture that first time we'd be able to....you know.
I must say i usually find random hot females to look at on my phone, and then imagine they are at home playing with my wife :)
Has to be either porn or a fantasy of mine. Used to think about the ex when we were together, but obviously not anymore!
It is very rare that I just think about the task in hand so to speak.
I think about my current partner at the moment. Sometimes I have fantasies involving a secretary though.