Heheh we actually tried using a shower curtain under a towel during sex, but the crinkling was off-putting and the friction generated during a two-hoyr session could burn a house down! Now that my aim is better I fire it at my girlfriend, skin is surprisingly absorbent :D
I'm so jealous - I so want to ejaculate it's the holy grail of orgasms for me!! :s Any tips anyone?
Have you reached your holly grail yet? If not I would really like to help :-)
I would sooooo love to do that
To do what? say what you want and you will get :-)
I have found the same thing as Private Lick & partner - sometimes, I just start to soak everything! Whilst g-spot stimulation is a big help, with the help of my boyfriend I found out that I have a very, very sweet spot on my clit. When he licks it my juices just start to run, and if it carries on much longer it can become a veritable shower!
My problem is that sometimes I hold back as I worry that it's actually pee. I am still not sure if it is.
I would recommend searching for such a spot! I'm not sure what the hell it is, even, it just happens to be a bit on the tip of the clit that seems to feel ten times better than the rest.. The most bizarre thing is that usually I take a long time to orgasm, and this was all possible merely with my boyfriend's tongue, no g-spot stimulation at all o.O
Not that I am complaining of course... it was a tad damp, though...
Ive found that a combination of tongue work with either ones finger or a dildo (smaller is better for this i think) achieves the desired result, patience is key as is a steady working tongue. sometimes angles make a difference so if your having trouble rain dance perhaps raise yourself up a bit (pillow etc) under your bum so that your boyfriend (?) can lick from a slightly more accute and lower angle.
Well... I have never ejaculated in my life, this seems to be a curious thing.... I didnt even know us lady's were capable?? but it seems so..
You guys say g-spot stimulation and oral?
If that is what should work then im niffed becuase my hubby does this all the time for me and it hasnt happened yet.. i'm not up tight or worried about giving him a mouth full, after all he isnt bothered about giving me a mouth full :P... am I just incapable?? or is there hope for me yet??
Hi, Laynie! Sorry for disappointing u, there is 13% possibility that u're uncapable.But since u have had an orgasm without pros it isn't the case... Body-chemistry is sumtimes tricky. Anyways, i don't know wat u might b thinking but normally women ejaculation also happens every time,it's just not that strong as men's.Most of the time u can't notice it-as in ur case. If u're longer stimulated,it is bigger.Mayb u should try this:make him stimulate u and just when u're about to come he should stop for 2-3 minutes.Then 2-3 times do the same again. On the 3rd or 4th time he should let u come, but u need to relax your body as much as possible. Just don't force ur body-everything should come from itself. With longer training the results get better ;-) Oh,besides squirt isn't pee of course-cause it doesn't come from ur pee-hole ;-) If it did mayb sum1 had kidney pros...;-)
i have ejaculated a few times thru my hubby giving me oral as well as in different positions it embarrased me at first as i didnt know what to expect lol after hubby telling me there was nothing wrong with it and that there was no need to be embarresed it just comes naturally.
My hun is not here right now, and thanks to you guys, i have successfully been able to ejaculate, even though I never thought I could. your tips are really appreciated and for all you women who still havent quite done it, go to the restroom first and know you are empty, so when during stimulation you feel like you have to pee, just go, and its not pee...trust me! Thanks again all you fellow orgasm soldiers!!!
p.s. use many layers of towels!!!!
i was a bit embarrased at first,but now it,s a must to drink as much water before we head of to bed,he loves it so much he will spend more time giving me oral now,loves to see me squirt and recently bought a video squirting woman,trying to break the record for the longest distance to squirt,not near it yet but really enjoy trying it.
my best orgasm is when my husband fisted me wow what an orgasm
Wow.. yeah I watched a film where a woman squirted looks good, but havent experienced it yet.. I really want to though LOL
My first orgasm-squirt was fantastic,
my legs n arms went all tingly,
i couldnt see.
It felt so amazing,
n my partner was really excited to,
tongues r so good
my hubby used my g-vibe on me the other night and i squirted him in the eye haha lol
i soaked his face he loved it said it tasted so sweet
long live the squirt
now could this work without oral because my boyfriend wont give me oral because he says he doesnt like doing it and he feels uncomftable witch i dont mind but id love to know if you could do it without oral please?...
I managed it without oral! I was on top, riding my boyfriend quite hard!! it took me by suprise, but felt damn good!! Doesn't happen every time though, only about 2/10 times for me
hi all thought i would let you in on a film that might help you out a little it's called "lord of squirt 2" with dr phill the first 30 mins get the point accross and it does work as i couldn't do the whole ejaculation bit until my fella came accross this film. and Tammy theres no oral involved it's all finger technique and getting that g-spot into gear:) it does have a bit humour in with it. and the rest of it just turns into the average porn film. but believe me it works well.
I manage to make myself squirt... my bf loves to watch, no one has managed to make it happen to me apart from myself though!
Ok I'm concerned now! I don't think I've ever properly orgasmed... is it obvious if you do? And I haven't ejaculated either. I mean, I love sex and have an active sex life. But it just doesn't seem to happen for me! Should I be worried? Is there hope for me yet?