Hi, how's everyone?
So my OH and I were discussing a few things the other night and the topic of a threesome came up. Long story short we decided we would enjoy a threeaome but only with another women (ffm). Turns out it's really hard to find a women that's interested in it.
Has anyone been in this position and does any one have any advice on finding someone?
:)
This is a really common topic. If you use the search function you'll find lots :)
Here's one to get you started http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/322-having-a-threesome/
Russybaby wrote:
Hi, how's everyone?
So my OH and I were discussing a few things the other night and the topic of a threesome came up. Long story short we decided we would enjoy a threeaome but only with another women (ffm). Turns out it's really hard to find a women that's interested in it.
Has anyone been in this position and does any one have any advice on finding someone?
:)
One place would be to try a swingers club I guess
@natandtom that's great thanks :). Gumtree? Never thought of posting on there!
we are on a few swingers sites looking to meet form/m/f 3some
but there appers to be too many timewasters on these sites messing genuine people like ourselfs around!
Alicia4Ever wrote:
An escourt agency my be one way to start with, there is going to be no chance of attachments forming, so less chance of jealousy creeping in. That way you can see if it's something you want to get into, without involving someone who may get too involved, and want more, if you don't like it.
+1 to this.
Me and my OH talk about this on countless occasions. With an escort, there will be no chance of anything else happening or feelings developing from them. You could try looking on adult work and use the search filters on there.
yea were also intrested in having fun with a 3rd person. we also had a idea of getting a professional in
I think it sounds really good but in reality me and the wife are too selfish to share each other fair play to all with courage to do so though
First three way we had (MMF) was with a mate of mine but subsequently we've gone for escorts, to ensure it's all for the sex and there is no attraction to complicate things. Worth discussing with anyone you might have lined up that they are okay with anything you might want to do. My OH gets heavily turned on by my 69ing with a man, and not all escorts are up for that.
I would love a threesome*REMOVED BY MODERATOR*
Hey, Tomasz, hate to sound naive, but how do you kick off a threesome when you've paid for an escort like that? I'd find it a bit difficult with a stranger (but probably more so with someone I knew) but keen to give it a go.
Jolove - with a professional it all comes pretty naturally. The guy we call on comes dressed as requested (my OH is turned on by black, smart boots and a leather jacket along with a crisp white shirt. The usual pattern is a a short talk and laugh and then the escort will lie back for my OH to work on - then he reciprocated. He'll then bring her to orgasm a couple of times (without coming himself) and then hand over to me. As the night wears on he'll come on to me too so all permutations are possible. Does tend to go on intermittently most of the night with us all feeling totally satisfied afterwards.
This site isn't for finding hook-ups and threesomes. Have a read of the rules :)