hi all we were swingers up until a few years ago, we are both bi.
we had many fantastic meets, but the reason we stoped was the hard work involved weeding out the fakes liers etc on sites like fab etc, we both fancy having threesomes with both sexes, again, we found involving other couples involved too many issues with one half of the other couple beeing more keen than the other.
so the question is, weve tried the internet and found it lacking with the usual sites, what else is there to find people, oh and we like to find friends with benifits, not just wham bam thank you mam stile meets, and return meets would be great, so how do we meet people?
call us fussy, we have tried that before, but we like to have a vanilla meet first, to see if there is a spark, hope this makes sence, we did meet one lady who we met many times, unfortunatly shes in a relationship now so we dont meet, altho we are still friends, we dont like having sex with stangers, hard to explain but there needs to be some trust there, we are in a very commited relationship so trust isnt an issue, niether is going to go running to someone else, we just want to feel like we are having fun with a friend.