I'd probably only try this with someone I trusted particularly well, not sure I'd want to be the receiver though unless they had small hands =D
Dunca1348 wrote:
Sorry for being a bit rude ,but has any one ever analy fisted
I have anally fisted my male partner.
i'd love to explore this a bit more (vaginally), carefully obviously! It's a bit annoying as both me and my partner have quite big hands! But yeah, i love the feeling of being stretched and feeling 'full'... (when done right!)
Me too. Mrs T has a habit of pushing her hand where the sun don't shine !!
TB
cj1972 wrote:
Fisting. It can be done right or wrong, if it's done wrong, she will never want to do it again!
Fisting does not have to be literally about 'fisting ' as in, the whole fist and half your arm up there, so stop worrying about losing a braclet or watch lol!External Media
Heres what to do:
Make sure your nails are trimmed with NO jagged edges.
Get some KY Jelly. There are other lubes out there, but KY is the best.
Apply KY to your hand. Apply KY to her vagina inside and around the entrance.
Do some usual foreplay with thouching and caressing and oral sex. (or which ever one she likes best).
Start by sliding one finger in and out, then progress to two, then three.
Then stop, hold it there!
Keep three fingers in and gently move in and out, rotate around, push in and out.
Now she needs to switch on a bullet vibe like the bang bang bullet or a mild to moderate mini vibe preferrably with a single speed and start to stroke her clitoris with it. This will make her relax and the pleasure will stop her tensing.
NOW go four a fourth finger, in and out, slowly, twist around again, while you are doing this your hand needs to be in a narrow shape (forefinger and little finger leaning in to touch middle fingers to make your hand narrow).
Press your thumb tight to your centre palm and then push in again, out, rotate, in and out, slowly and gently.
You are now in up to the knuckles.
Push gently again but if she feels pain, STOP PULL BACK A LITTLE AND GO AGAIN - GENTLY.
If you still feel resistance, thats as far as you can go. Wide hands will not fit inside sometimes! (That's why porn actors doing fisting scenes often have slender hands, have you noticed that?)
If this is as far as you can go, concentrate on the pressing gently against the entrance and twisting gently around, the stretching sensation alone shud be enough with the bullet in use as well, to give her a good orgasm.
Fisting does not have to mean taking the whole hand, many people (myself included) get mind blowing pleasure from simply feeling a partners hand stretching down there. Which is still fisting even if the whole fist is not involved.
This should help you to achive the result you both want, so try this next time you have a go at it. And remember fisting is patience and skill and technique, but that's only 20% of it - the rest is TRUST so as long as you are both relaxed, gentle and careful, and go slowly, it should be good for you and mind blowing for her.
All the best and I hope this helps.
Source of my advice: An 18 month relationship with a former lover who used to fist me vaginally and anally. He never got past the knuckles either but it was amazing, because it was slow, careful and he did all the things I listed above.
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Hiya...thank you for the amount of detail in this post! I'm intreagued by fisting but I'm a bit worried that my partners hands might be a bit big for me as there is quite a big size difference between us. I will show him the post and see how far we can get! Thanks again hun :) xxKPxx
With previous partners, I'd thought it would never happen. I don't think my new man has smaller hands, he's just more gentle, more considerate, more patient, and more able to read my body than anyone I've been with before. Sorry to sound smug, but I had a lot of horrid men before, I want to sing the marvellousness of my new fella from the rooftops!
He massaged my whole body first, avoiding my pussy completely but murmuring in my ear the whole time, telling me how he was going to make me come harder than I'd ever experienced, and asking me if I wanted that, if I would be a good girl and take what he was going to give me. I was so turned on by his voice, and by his dirty promises, my juices were running down my thighs before he even touched my soaking pussy. He made me beg before he stroked my slit, but refused to penetrate me, then sucked my clit for ages, teasing me, not letting me come, keeping me deliciously on edge and in need, bucking wildly and desperate to feel something inside me. I wanted to be filled, fucked, and he was going to tease me until I admitted it. I held out as long as I could, but his tongue dancing on my swollen clit was too much, and before I knew it I was begging him to fill my aching pussy. He told me to be careful what I wished for as he finally slid one finger inside me, but I came immediately, my muscles clenching tightly round his finger, so I didn't quite realise what he'd said.
It was only when I realised that even though I'd come, he didn't plan to stop, that I started to wonder what he meant. Stroking my gspot and making me writhe and moan, he kept adding fingers, still with his tongue on my clit, but not with enough pressure to make me come again. He told me he was going to keep adding more, filling my pussy, stretching me, pushing my limits, and that once I'd been a good girl and taken his fist he would let me come. Hearing that made me moan like a porn star. I was so wet and ready for him that although he had four fingers in me, I was still begging for more. I wanted him to push me, take me further than I'd ever been, and oh, I needed to come so much.
As he added his thumb and pushed in up to the knuckles I started to realise how intense this might feel. He held his hand still, just gently sucking on my clit, then rotated his hand slowly inside me. The pressure on my g made my tight pussy throb round his hand and I needed to come so badly I actually pushed down onto him, past his knuckles, spreading myself open, forcing my tight little cunt to stretch and swallow his hand to the wrist. He smiled and kissed me, told me what I was, what I was taking, what he was doing to me. His whole hand was inside my body. My tight, sweet little pussy was filled with his fist. And as he whispered those words in my ear, he started to fuck me with his hand.
I've never come so hard in my life. I want more.
SS xx
Wow SS....... I want, I want. U make it sound so possible and I have to admit that as my partner is fingering me he'll get to 3 finger but stop and I just know that I want him to go further...... well that is deff somthing ill be asking, im just wet at the thought.
woooo hmmm her hum!! oops i got a bit excited then...
id really like to try this but accidentallly too.. I dont want to ask for it as i dont think its something my man will go for...and i dont take no very easily!! maybe the monogamy game will iron this one out for me... but its something i would like to try...sounds very interesting and pleasurable!! ;)
Never tried it on a lady, but have been working my way up the butt-plug sizes to the point of almost being able to myself I have found that regular toy use, with slight increases in size as things allow, helps get you used to it.
I'd be very surprised it you could "just do it" without working up to it over a period of time, slow, gentle, plenty of lube and if it hurts, STOP!
Okay, SS, that post was HOT.
wow what an educational post i will have to try this on my oh
Sorry, I got a bit carried away with my description!
Malteser you're exactly right - it was astonishingly possible. I was amazed, particularly as previous partners had tried and got nowhere near. I think it's all about being utterly comfortable and relaxed, and not feeling pressured or like he's expecting me to manage it. He was doing it for my pleasure not his, and that made it possible. And so hot.
Incidentally, he reckons since we did that, my pussy is tighter than ever!
SS xx
Interesting - even though I did it with him with no problem, I can't get anywhere near to doing it to myself, even though my own hands are much smaller. Curiouser and curiouser.
SS xx
I think SS that its the positioning and also that when ure trying it yourself you are no where near as turned on as when its your partner trying..... I know i cant get anywhere near myself and end up just getting frustrated and well drying up, which isnt what u need at all :S
^^ Yup, that! It's partly angles, but more that the psychology of it is just all wrong for me when I'm on my own!
SS xx
SweetSubmission wrote:
Sorry, I got a bit carried away with my description!
I don't think anyone will accept your apology, it was HOT!
SweetSubmission wrote:
With previous partners, I'd thought it would never happen. I don't think my new man has smaller hands, he's just more gentle, more considerate, more patient, and more able to read my body than anyone I've been with before. Sorry to sound smug, but I had a lot of horrid men before, I want to sing the marvellousness of my new fella from the rooftops!
He massaged my whole body first, avoiding my pussy completely but murmuring in my ear the whole time, telling me how he was going to make me come harder than I'd ever experienced, and asking me if I wanted that, if I would be a good girl and take what he was going to give me. I was so turned on by his voice, and by his dirty promises, my juices were running down my thighs before he even touched my soaking pussy. He made me beg before he stroked my slit, but refused to penetrate me, then sucked my clit for ages, teasing me, not letting me come, keeping me deliciously on edge and in need, bucking wildly and desperate to feel something inside me. I wanted to be filled, fucked, and he was going to tease me until I admitted it. I held out as long as I could, but his tongue dancing on my swollen clit was too much, and before I knew it I was begging him to fill my aching pussy. He told me to be careful what I wished for as he finally slid one finger inside me, but I came immediately, my muscles clenching tightly round his finger, so I didn't quite realise what he'd said.
It was only when I realised that even though I'd come, he didn't plan to stop, that I started to wonder what he meant. Stroking my gspot and making me writhe and moan, he kept adding fingers, still with his tongue on my clit, but not with enough pressure to make me come again. He told me he was going to keep adding more, filling my pussy, stretching me, pushing my limits, and that once I'd been a good girl and taken his fist he would let me come. Hearing that made me moan like a porn star. I was so wet and ready for him that although he had four fingers in me, I was still begging for more. I wanted him to push me, take me further than I'd ever been, and oh, I needed to come so much.
As he added his thumb and pushed in up to the knuckles I started to realise how intense this might feel. He held his hand still, just gently sucking on my clit, then rotated his hand slowly inside me. The pressure on my g made my tight pussy throb round his hand and I needed to come so badly I actually pushed down onto him, past his knuckles, spreading myself open, forcing my tight little cunt to stretch and swallow his hand to the wrist. He smiled and kissed me, told me what I was, what I was taking, what he was doing to me. His whole hand was inside my body. My tight, sweet little pussy was filled with his fist. And as he whispered those words in my ear, he started to fuck me with his hand.
I've never come so hard in my life. I want more.
SS xx
Best. Post. Ever.
Thank you :)
I have had the pleasure of being anally fisted. It is an amazing experience and I think a main reason for that is because of how ridiculously kinky it is.
It's not exactly common, so it's great for people who are looking to try something different and a bit extreme.
All I can say based on my experience of being fisted, is that communication is key and the fister really needs to listen and obey! It's important to resist the temptation of trying to push it in a little bit further when being told to stop.
Also...if it takes a long time to do it, then that's not a problem, because the feeling when the whole fist slides inside is well worth an hour of effort.
Also, mine was made even better by a very long blowjob throughout and then whilst the fist was in me.
Resulted in a very very powerful orgasm!
Enjoy it....and it goes without saying....but LOADS of lube....cover the hand and the ass liberally.
SweetSubmission wrote:
With previous partners, I'd thought it would never happen. I don't think my new man has smaller hands, he's just more gentle, more considerate, more patient, and more able to read my body than anyone I've been with before. Sorry to sound smug, but I had a lot of horrid men before, I want to sing the marvellousness of my new fella from the rooftops!
SS just read this... my and my OH are looking into it and I fully agree.... I am managing/more open to a lot of things with my OH that I was not able to do with ex's....
Yay for nice men :D
We're just about to start building upto fisting!
^^ yay for nice men indeed. Glad you've found one too OV! Enjoy your new ways to play!
SS xx