Hello everyone me and my OH love having foreplay but are getting stuck with ideas.trying to think of something different does anyone have suggestions of different thing we could try.
Hello and welcome @maynegalaxy29
What sort of things have you tried already?
Well we have tried some sex games and that I tease him and he teases me it pretty much the basics of foreplay just want to spice things up and make it more interesting pretty much up for trying anything .
How about bondage? Is it something you’ve tried/thought about? You can start very light and nothing too extreme, blindfolds and ties etc
Never thought about that I do like giving and receiving them
Iv always wanted to try bondage never really knew where to start
Watch porn/erotica/a second filled movie together?
Look at various sex positions but instead of having penetrative sex, perform other acts like oral, hands, toys.
A good place for starting bondage would be an under bed restraint. Lovehoney have some great kits that will get you started with the restraint but also some toys to use for ideas.
Lingerie is a big part of our foreplay. And sex toys. Mrs Chimp is a fan of glass dildos (particularly the Beaded one), and the Mantric Wand is a good toy to use together (either on each other as foreplay, or the vibrations travel nicely when used during too). The under-mattress restraints are good as well, like these Bondage Boutique ones:
Start with something simple like under-mattress restraints or wrist-to-thigh restraints and a blindfold.
My husband and I aren’t very adventurous, and there are a handful of things that we both don’t really want to try But we’ve been browsing through the sex toy kits to get some new ideas or to try something new since the kits give you a variety of different things to try out… We’ve been trying different sex positions (up to now, we had only really used 3 positions regularly) and also trying to use our sex toys in different combinations to masturbate each other a different way each time.
How about some floor wrestling
Check out Kate Marley on Pornhub. The videos are mostly foreplay with her partner, sometimes gentle bondage with restraint. Also an introduction to prostate massage for your partner?
One night we were talking about our sex life and how can we spice it up, mix it up and then a LH advert came on the tele. So we had a look on their site and I said I quite like the idea of him tying me up and spanking me, he was up for it. We’ve now got quite a lot of bondage gear, sex toys. I love being his sub and totally being dominated by him and he having all the control over me, ordering me about and doing things. We do roleplaying, foreplay games, and massages I absolutely love him doing it and most of the time I move back and slide onto his erection and he’ll thrust slow. If we’re going out I’ll put in a remote control toy and he’ll take control over it. He likes it when I write erotic scenarios for us. During the day when he’s at work he’ll order me to send him pic’s of me, and sometimes with toys. And if I do it he’ll send me pics of him
We find foreplay is best performed from a distance. Try making it a non contact thing. Stimulate the mind and the body will often follow!!
Dirty Talk always spices things up. I don’t think I’ve ever had a lover who didn’t like me talking dirty to him. Say things like how a particular action he’s doing feels, specifically concentrating on how much he drives you crazy with it.
Be specific. Be crude. Get nasty, and be that ‘slut’ you’ve always wanted to be! We all have an “inner slut” that lies dormant until the right, safe place and person show up to unleash her. Let your mind run a bit. Relax, leave your brain at the door and use your five senses to experience sex with him fully.