Guys I need some help. I’m a single guy and live alone. My friend has recently moved in after a break up. Last night he started talking about being bicurious and I’m unsure if it’s a good idea
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I guess that the starting point is to understand what it is you want.
I can’t give you a firm answer because each relationship and interest is different. I experienced a similar situation although I was the one doing the coach surfing at the time. Stayed with a guy from work that I later found out was gay despite having an ex and two kids. We played from time to time and it was interesting. Didn’t feel weird after the fact and didn’t change our friendship. Of course, every situation may be different.
Well I’m not sure myself really
If you are unsure then it maybe best to take a time out. Don’t feel pressured.
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Agreed. If you are unsure, leave it alone. If it’s something you are interested in, perfect opportunity.
Depends if your curious yourself, don’t be pursued in doing something you don’t want to do!! If its FWB and you’re happy to try then why not, if it was me I’d jump at the chance but then I know I’m bisexual. You literally got to be sure as its a big thing.
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Are you curious? where you curious before he mentioned it or did him suggesting it make you wonder? most men will know if they are truly curious suggestions or not, if you were curious then suppose its like they say “don’t knock it till you try it!” Then at least you’ll know if its what you like, but make it on your terms!!
My thoughts are just be careful as your friendship may suffer but then again if you have a strong connection and you want to explore then you are both adults and it might help
I am curious but I have never taken it any further than that and I am in a heterosexual relationship at the moment so it is unlikely to be anything but a feeling
It’s hard decision to make, go with the flow
Of course it depends on whether you are bicurious yourself, but it sounds like you are at least partly intrigued by the idea.
Although men generally convince themselves that only a tiny minority of us are bicurious, I have come to the conclusion the opposite is true.
It’s only natural, after enjoying hundreds/thousands of blowjobs and watching even more of them in porn (as many of us have) - that you are going to wonder what it would be like to be a giver instead of a receiver.
Given the chance, and especially if we could do it without anybody else knowing (especially our mates), I think nearly all of us would at least suck a cock as an experiment.
In my experience of talking (in forums like this one) to other men, by far the most common form of ‘bicurious’ is the kind I am: wanting to know what it feels like to have a cock in my mouth and suck it, but having no interest (at this stage, at least) in any other aspect of man-on-man play.
I also didn’t anticipate wanting to know what it would be like to have another man cum in my mouth, although the more I think about it, the more I think that would be a worthwhile part of the ‘experiment’.
For reasons too lengthy to go into, I will almost certainly never get the opportunity to experience it for myself, so I can’t say for sure, but I am struggling to see what damage can be done by anyone trying it once.
If not wanting to consider yourself ‘gay’ is your issue, or you are worried it will be the thin end of the wedge (pun not intended), then that would be a much bigger debate, but I have come to think that ‘bicurious’ is not even slightly ‘gay’, nor even ‘bisexual’, but literally having a harmless curiosity in another sexual experience.
In short: nobody is going to die if you suck a cock, including you.
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I’d say he would need to make the first moves especially if he’s fresh out a relationship but then again everyone copes differently and moves on in various ways. Just be a good friend and respect his space for now and see what progresses
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Well we spoke about it. And agreed just to let it be fun.
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Very good and glad to hear it 
hopefully some fun times await you both!
Awesome , I hope it all works out and the friendship stays intact . I’m thinking experimenting with a friend can be better than with some stranger .
a good way to start is being open about masturbation habits, it can then go on if you’re both happy to some pretty harmless joint sessions, using porn together if your’e both happy with it, and on if you’re happy then to mutual or oral or more. Just let it progress and stop when you’ve found the right place for your both.