One night each month my partner and I plan to have a games night. We have made a list of the fun things that we like , in the bedroom, and will draw a card randomly to decide which toy , clothes or position we will play. My dilemma is when it comes to me dressing up, what can I wear that is stimulating and exciting to my wife.
You ladies have a range of exotic and erotic lingerie that you can wear to please us men . But all I can find for mens sexy clothes is boxers.
Can I ask you ladies on here for any tips and advice on what you find sexy on a man so I can surprise my OH . Thanks x
Well, you can wear all the same sexy stuff that she does! :p
You're lucky in that more 'normal' male clothing has been classed as erotic (in the right scanario) due to the lack of specific lingerie. A nice shirt, jeans, tie...all normal, everday items of clothing that can be used to dress up sexy and give a wonderful strip tease. Combine the shirt with the sexy boxers et viola! My partner in a shirt drives me wild...screw lingerie, he's got the shirt!
Think about female lingerie. There's lots of it, yes...but it is all just a prettier version of something we wear everyday; our underwear. Yet you still find it exciting when your partner wears it, right? Even though it's just a different version of the everyday wear, and it's all pretty much the same garment just a little altered. It stands to reason that, while you may think ten different pairs of sexy boxers will bore her, she will find it hugely exciting! Guys don't wear any other underwear, usually. Thus why you can generally only find boxers or vests produced in sexy styles (have you seen the vests on here btw?)
I can assure you I am exactly the same when I find some new 'sexy' pants, I'm like 'pfft, it's another pair of pants. He sees me in these everyday. Why would he be impressed'. Yet when the new pants are on, you'd think I'd transformed into some sex Goddess or something. What may seem insignificant to you could send her heartrate through the roof!
What do you usually wear? Tight boxers? Loose boxers? Buy the opposite. Buy some in lace. Buy some with an easy access zipper (ouch) or lacing (safer lol!). Buy some with no ass if you are going to incorporate anal play in your games. Buy some sheer ones, mesh ones, whatever is the opposite of your usual wear. Put them under your regular clothes and watch the surprise when you invite her to undress you. I'm sure she'll be more than happy to include them in the game cards, despite them being 'just boxers' :)
I second the suit idea, especially if you don't have the sort of job where you wear a suit everyday. There's also the standard 'sexy' costumes (policeman, fireman etc) which she may be into but you'll probably have to ask about that. She may have a secret fantasy she hasn't mentioned
Yeah hubby looks sexy in a suit or even just a shirt. He doesn't wear them often 😒
I agree wear a suit or maybe heres a few strange links 
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http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19079
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http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2776 & http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7079
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Apart from them maybe put on something she really likes you wearing.
Totally agree with the shirt//suit ensemble, or just a tie as they are so versatile!
I still have my old RAF No1 uniform (shiny buttons etc) which we still use and always manages to raise the temperature. Most army surplus stock some great outfits if you are into those.
Good luck
Thanks for all your advice. It has give me something to think about. If you ladies have any favorite games that you like to play any suggestions I could consider adding them to my list.
Once again . Thanks x