Similar to you jezzer, except it is a dangerous game. Sometimes she will wear what I suggest in a receptive kind of a way, sometimes i'll get slagged off for trying to dictate what she wears. That's women for you though. I'll always wear what she wants if she suggests something, normally I will put something on, ask her opinion and she'll say "nope, don't want the black lycra ones, put ya Daniel Craigs on", or something similar. I'll always oblige with her wishes. That's men for you though.
Think sometimes it is nice to see what the other is wearing as it gets you thinking all night! Other times its nice not to let each other know and sepnd the night wondering!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Either way its fun!
I occasionally pick what the OH wears and he has recently helped me buy a load of new, sexy, matching undies so I usually ask what he thinks I should wear....the key word being ask really. Although I ALWAYS ask him as he has such better taste than I do and knows what suits my body well....and it gives him sexy thoughts while we're out!
Oh, but there was a lost bra when we stayed at his uncles one time! We went back a week later to look for it in the spare bedroom and couldn't find it at all! Ended in a very embarrasing conversation with his uncle who had found it and kept it in his cupboard in the living room! And I had to ask very red-faced if I could please have it back. External Media
Hehe love it! Elcano and I ended up taking lube to a friend's when we were stopping over on their sofa bed for the night. There was a slight panic then next day when we couldn't find it and had visions of them finding it after we'd gone External Media Luckily we spotted it in time before they came down in the morning!
I've only picked his on the odd occasion, but am def going to make more of it now!! Columbus we had the same situation but my parents found our lube! And I've since found my brothers too!