Me & the hubby are want to try out new things in the bedroom, we have tried but plugs, but i really want to get a strap on the thought of this really turns me on! (hubby is up for it too) i have read reviews but still do not know which to buy,
i'm torn between http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8569
and this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16058
Please help your knowledge would be great..
I have the first on. Its ok but a bit cheaply made and can cut in and while the dildos are great i cant reccommend jelly, because it can burn your skin, melt and lots of other things
ZombieCpl wrote:
I have the first on. Its ok but a bit cheaply made and can cut in and while the dildos are great i cant reccommend jelly, because it can burn your skin, melt and lots of other things
So do you think i would be better off with a more expensive one? any ideas?
let us know how you get on, because its on our list of things to do in 2013 too :)
Scarlet Couple wrote:
let us know how you get on, because its on our list of things to do in 2013 too :)
I will do
see my revue on sport sheet harness but get different dildo, it's a bit pricy but worth it in the end good luck and enjoy yourselves
scotman wrote:
see my revue on sport sheet harness but get different dildo, it's a bit pricy but worth it in the end good luck and enjoy yourselves
So you uses your own dildo's with this, i think all of mine are too big for my OH. Im now looking at the Doc johnson Vac-u-lock range cos you can buy extra dildos.
With the sport sheet harness you can choose from a number of dildos as they have different sized rings so the worlds your oyster
Well after a lot of looking i have ordered
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971
and i have treated myself too http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12689
I am so excited, roll on next week.
i have the strap on youve ordered an i personal think its great i looked at getting the 1st 2 you linked but the found the one youve ordered it not to big or too firm i think its just right
have fun
I vote any Doc Johnson product... this is great for sensations and isn't penis shaped!
Ms HKM wrote:
I vote any Doc Johnson product... this is great for sensations and isn't penis shaped!
I look at this one but my OH didnt like the look of it.. Im so excited i can not wait, i cant belive ive got myself a Leo product (even if its one of the cheaper ones) What a great way to start 2013.
yummy mummy91 wrote:
i have the strap on youve ordered an i personal think its great i looked at getting the 1st 2 you linked but the found the one youve ordered it not to big or too firm i think its just right
have fun
After having a good look, i thought the first 2 i linked looked cheap. im glad you like the one i have ordered i hope we (me and my OH) have a lot of fun with it.
Hope you OH have some fun times, remember to start slowly don't want to frighten OH straight away LOL
I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)
amiss wrote:
I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)
Oh have fun, this is also on our list for 2013. We've played similar, but stopped short of a full strap-on...
... now if you really want to heighten the D/S play element consider buying a cheap bit-gag for him; "Something to bite down on!" etc etc. If you do go with a gag just be sure to switch from a safe word to something like three taps on the headboard, or something you'll notice once in the moment.
Dastity wrote:
amiss wrote:
I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)
Oh have fun, this is also on our list for 2013. We've played similar, but stopped short of a full strap-on...
... now if you really want to heighten the D/S play element consider buying a cheap bit-gag for him; "Something to bite down on!" etc etc. If you do go with a gag just be sure to switch from a safe word to something like three taps on the headboard, or something you'll notice once in the moment.
I like your thinking.
amiss wrote:
I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)
It is a really good idea to let him 'thread himself' onto the dildo and dictate the rate of penetration rather than you driving it in. This way the pain can be completely avoided. Even after years of experience I find that taking the entry too fast can hurt like hell and it sets the whole session off on the wrong track.
The first time my wife pegged me was with one of these:-
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9047
which offers a nice easy ,er, introduction to the subject however, it felt as if she had impaled me with a small submarine.
Patience, a sense of humour, and lube are the key requirements - have fun!
Gyrator53 wrote:
amiss wrote:
I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)
It is a really good idea to let him 'thread himself' onto the dildo and dictate the rate of penetration rather than you driving it in. This way the pain can be completely avoided. Even after years of experience I find that taking the entry too fast can hurt like hell and it sets the whole session off on the wrong track.
The first time my wife pegged me was with one of these:-
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9047
which offers a nice easy ,er, introduction to the subject however, it felt as if she had impaled me with a small submarine.
Patience, a sense of humour, and lube are the key requirements - have fun!
Thanks, for the advice, i have used butt plugs, slim dildos & a couple of fingers on him, so he is not a complete novice. But i will be gentle with him so we both enjoy ourselfs.