You know what, I don’t think my OH has ever washed my hair We have a great set up where he blowdries my hair while I’m knelt in front of him and I give him oral. I find drying my hair tedious, but I love giving oral and he loves receiving it. We both come out of it very happy He’s also dyed my hair the last two times. It’s all very therapeutic for me but not necessarily a turn on.