Hi just looking for a bit of advice really, me and hubby have always had a good sex life, this past month it’s like we’ve had a surge in our sex drive, everyday upto 3 time’s a day, and there’s been a few times were he hasn’t been able to ejaculated, just curious to know why?
Before this surge of sex drive we were having sex up to 3 time’s a week and he ejaculated every time.
So really I was just wondering people’s views why he’s not been able to these few times.
I was thinking it might be cos we’re doing it constantly, and not giving him enough time for them to build up enough to ejaculate, as I said before we’ve never had a problem before.
Thank you 
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Probably the very reason you state, you’ve drained the tanks! Seriously, depending on age, diet, hydration, fatigue etc it can affect things too. As long as your both enjoying things, i wouldn’t worry.
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Thank you I just needed to hear it from someone else, that’s the exact words he said to me 
I’ve drained him. He’s 35, he’s a lorry driver and some long day’s and sometimes he finishes early.
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And also ejaculation every time is only a problem if you make it one.
For me, depending on how many times I have come that session, how late it is (and how much alcohol has been involved) I am quite happy to pleasure my partner and don’t feel any need to come again.
Sometimes I think it ‘bothers’ the partner because they want to be fulfil the other. On a few occasions I have faked orgasms just to make her happy.
If you are happy with your current sexual life does it matter if he (or you for that matter) always come?
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Something to note, even if he doesn’t ejaculate, he can still orgasm 
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It doesn’t matter to me in the slightest, of course I love it when he cums in me. But it does bother him though, he says it feels like that he’s let me down, and he couldn’t finish but I do try my best to reassure him that he hasn’t
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He still has orgasm’s though
Yes I would agree in that having sex 3 times a day will run the sperm bank a little dry after the first go so wouldn’t worry too much if he don’t ejaculate every time.
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Thank you, think a little break is needed lol
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It happens now and then don’t be discouraged as previously stated you probably drained your man which isn’t a bad thing means you treat him well 
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Thank you 
must admit I just get enough of him
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Welcome always willing to help out in any way possible
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Thank you really appreciate it
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I’m very open and honest and haven’t found my own limits yet
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Sometimes that’s the best way I think
I have a moto ill try anything 3 times just to make sure I don’t like it lol
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that’s a good one
Well gotta be sure of these things lol
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Oh definitely, and check again and again
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I’m sure there are times you haven’t "got there " with hubby so in my eyes it’s no different really
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