I do. We talk about everything. But some of my fantasies are just as you say "dare not admit" and no matter how much you love someone, some things are best kept to yourself. Laynie Says,........."She may have a few fantasies of her own" I think that's when it started. I could'nt believe when my wife told me her inner most secrets. At first I was shocked, that the woman I love, could harbour such thoughts and after so many years together. But then I started to appreciate her even more. Sex with her is so (words can't explain)if you get what I mean. We've soft swapped once, (about two years ago) and we still talk about it. We are still waiting.........