So the wife is not a fan of penetration but love oral me just the opposite So we are looking for a toy to go inside the harness that doesn't smash her clitoris
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Have you considered a strapless dildo? Unfortunately this is not something we have tried but there are plenty of strapless dildo's to pick from on the website. Or does it have to fit in a harness?
I don't think I understand the question. Are you looking for a dildo attachment for a harness so she can peg you? And that dildo needs not rub her ?
What harness do you have ? Is it a harness with a full backing or an open loop ?
Yes we have tried a strapless strap-on but the bulb that is inserted was uncomfortable for her We were thinking something like a flat vibrator that goes inside the harness something she could feel as she thrusts Without smashing it into her pelvis