Hey all, i'm new to the site but would quite like some help.
I've been with my OH for about a year now and everything has been normal as i guess its best to put.
It sounds a bit naughty but i noticed an odd file on his computer, curiosity got the better of me and I had a look. I found the usual bloke porn stash which i'm fine with, but I also found a file containing LOADS of Vore related images, women and humanoids being consumed by snakes, all overly sexualised etc.
He doesn't know that I know about them, but he has already said he doesn't like vore, so i'm very confused as to what to do =s
Em well if he says he doesnt like vore, it may be tht at one point he did, but doesnt find it appealing any more x
Other than telling him youve seen the images and ask him about it, theres no real way of knowing what he thinks :)
I don't think you have to do anything. By the way, I only just found out what "vore" is lol.
I agree it sounds like a weird fetish- but that's the "beauty" of fetishes. It doesn't appeal to all. He may just like snakes too? o.O
Also, he just might not be comfortable in sharing that information with you but for now I don't think you need to worry. If you can't help but be somewhat concerned you'd probably have to confess and reveal that you've seen the file and discuss about it then.. Of course, that can backfire on to you for invading his privacy..
Welcome to the Lovehoney community by the way. =)
Thanks for the quick responses =) will try not to dwell on it
A giant, phallic snake consuming a woman? It doesn't sound like that weird a fetish to me. Perhaps he's a little uncomfortable that he finds it arousing - but I'm pretty sure such images would trigger a very basic, masculine response in some guys. Girls too! Regardless, I wouldn't worry about it at all. It doesn't mean anything.
Hi there and welcome :)
It seems to me that although your partner may have said they did not like vore, they could have been too embarrassed or ashamed to admit it or just did not want to tell you for some reason. Perhaps you should sit down with him, explain what you found and reassure him that its ok to like it and its nothing to be ashamed of.
For those that dont really understand vore, its not neccesarily just about snakes, it really encompasses being hunted, eaten, digested and passed out, some people only like certain aspects.
If it makes you feel uncomfortable then i would suggest doing some research on it (I wholly recommend fetlife) and communicating with him. It could be that it was a one time thing that he was curious about or it could be his deepest and darkest secret fantasy
lol, I don't think you should worry too much about it. It looks like your man loves things 'a bit different'.