hi all a little advice please

right i need a bit of advice iv been sexually active since i was 18 and when i use toys i orgasm but never wet its like my mind blows but i dont cum and wen i have sex with a man i cant orgasm or become wet or nothin now my partner is gettin very frustrated with it its not like im not relaxed with him cus i love havin sex but not too the point where i cum i even tried viagra too see if that would help but nothing someone please help me xx

Hi again, there's no need to post the same question 3 times, you'll get loads of replies just posting once - but perhaps not at 12.30am!

Guys if you'd like to reply the original post is at http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sexual-health/45685-advice-please-xx/

Carly, Ruth or another member of the team, maybe you could delete this thread so people don't get confused and so any useful info all ends up in one place?

Right well first of all stop worrying, we are all different some women are very dry and some women are very wet, i have the opposite problem to you and thats not much fun either, i really worry that i am too wet for my boyfriend to enjoy himself!!! (so u see u are not alone in worrying about things in that department). Also many women find it difficult to orgasm during sex. Have you tried using lube for the timebeing? Also what is it your partner is frustrated about?

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sorry Jake we must have posted at the same time! i have now posted my reply in the thread you have as well