Still discovering ours I guess.
started after a night of drinking,p with a spectacular bottle of red wine with friends. Later that night, instead of the usual "alcohol puts her to sleep", it was more like our youth, alcohol made her horny. We had a great session including me just gently rimming her externally with a finger during sex, I'd not seen her so deep into sex in a long time. Got us talking about our sex life, it's routineness ect and she said she'd be open for anything, except butt stuff, she still had a hang up about that.
That lead to my first lovehoney order, which included a blindfold and some restraints and remote toys for each of us.
Night one was a bit of experimentation at being restrained and spanked (by hand) for both of us followed by some very vigorous sex. She then gave me instructions on on more toys for her impending birthday.
That lead to order number two, which was some jiggle balls, a flogger and bed restraints.
Full day of play with the kids at school was just awesome, taking it in turns to be tied up, whipped, spanked with a wooden spoon, and we also both used a small plastic vibe anally which was well received by both.
That lead to order number three, including some butt plugs and a realistic dildo for her.
we haven't had the opportunity for a full play date yet, but we are 1000% more adventurous than we were previously. It's our anniversary in a few months and we are hoping to get some time off before the kids break up for summer holidays.
All starting with wine, bless alcohol for helping drop inhibitions