What's the best thing you've ever done with your OH?

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Hi there,

My name is Chloe and I'm doing some research for a fun new TV sex show. We're trying to find out what the most fun and pleasurable things people have got up to in bed with their parners are.

Obviously none of this information is for broadcast! So pleas feel free to share what floats your boat :)

Thanks!

Chloe

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Definately anal fisting. Abslute, unimaginable fun.

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Wow! Is that something you get into gradually? And is there anythign specific about it that you like?

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Well i had been reading 50 shades (and couldnt stand it!) so had been looking at bondage elsewhere and I really just fancied it. My partner is not one to say no and we just tried anal fisting. hadnt tried it before and have not done it since :) I enjoy the feeling of power and I think he just enjoys the feeling :)

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So do you give it and he recieves? Had you done any other anal stuff before?

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yes, we have done plenty of anal- anal sex usually though sometimes with toys too. I like to give as I dont particularly enjoy large items inserted into me though I do enjoy anal intercourse

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I don't usually like getting into explicits but I think one of the things we've done that was quite incredible was having my partner use a dildo on me. It took me completely by surprise (because I didn't think he would be up for it) and because he was in control of it- it made it so much more amazing.

I guess the mood helped in being sexually charged and he took pleasure in doing it. It ended with him finishing off in me. =P

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Thanks both!

I'm interested to know if people who have tried something like that have usually tried lots of other things, or whether they also just find one thing - for example someone using a dildo on their partner - and stick to that. Are you generally very adventurous? Do you think you and your partner will try other things too?

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Cum over her face whilst she was dressed as a superhero.

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We're quite "vanilla" as he was my first ever sexual partner (and only) but we're keen to try other things.

I only got into the idea of sex toys due to our long distance relationship. But we'd love to do more with bondage. We're quite firm on some limitations like anal- as it doesn't appeal to us.

We don't stick to one thing; the dildo scenario doesn't happen a lot- only when we're in the mood. But I do like having a vibrating egg between us or a cock ring for clitoral stimulation. Nothing beats the real thing though lol.

Since we're so open with eachother we will be continuing to explore and experiment together. I think what makes our sex life so great is the fact that we love wanting to pleasure eachother. We try and do something at least once to get a feel for whether we like it or not. For example- I swallowed once but I did NOT like it. So, even though I will give him oral, it's a no to swallowing lol. Flavoured lube helps though. =)

I do have to thank Lovehoney for being able to faciliate and help with our new adventerous outlook.

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That's great! Sounds like you have a similar outlook to your partner and both know what you want so you're lucky :)

How do you find out what you want to try next? Is it on here? Do your friends ever give you tips?

And regarding the superhero - do you dress up with your partner a lot, or was it just a specific superhero thing?

Thanks! Chloe

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We are comic book geeks and love the whole sci fi genre. We have dressed up as Kick Ass and Hit Girl recently, which was cool and super girl and superman, it's great alter ego sex.

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I love it! That's brilliant! So do you just wear the costume, or do you role play as well? And how long have you been together? Have you ever tried that with another partner?

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We did a little role play but fell about laughing. We do dress up quite a bit and its such a laugh. We've been together 7 years married for 5. Not had dressed up sex with anyone else, but never say never, as we do have friends we meet for same room no swopping fun. I think maybe both ladies should be sexy nuns and the guys play randy bishops for naughty confessional games.

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How long into your relationship did you discover that dressing up was such a hit for you both? And how did you meet the people you now have same room no swapping fun with?

Is there anything else you've heard about but haven't tried? Are you curious about new things?

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ZombieCpl wrote:

Definately anal fisting. Abslute, unimaginable fun

i agree although not into large objects myself, i do this to my hubby and he loves it. :)

hubby also likes getting a blowjob whilst have a butt plug inserted..very explosive!! everywhere :)

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I guess pegging has to be the best thing we have done, not just because it feels fantastic but also because it marked the point at which we really broke away from our rather old-fashioned upbringings (we are in our late 50's so grew up in a rather less liberated era).

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Thanks so much for this info. I find that interesting what you say about breaking away from old fashioned upbringings - at what point in your relationship did you discover pegging? How long have you been together?

Thanks! Chloe

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Once we had established that we had similar kinky sci fi related interests it wasn't long before we started dressing up, nothing weird, just a bit of fun. I reckon it was about a year into marriage we started. As for meeting our new friends, we met on an adult website and we all advertised for the same thing, to be watched having sex. We have now met twice and love it, as its such a turn on being watched. What else would we like to do, well my wife wants more FF action, as she had her first taste last week, literally. Maybe webcam comic book porn, that would be a laugh and we would be in disguise/alter egos. We uploaded our home made comic book porn video to a website and had a few People purchase a view, which was cool too.

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we've been together 10yrs and only started anal play in the last 2. our sex life is amazing, we just fancied a break from the norm and try new things. with great success so far :)