Sex or masturbating, how often do you cum and how do you get get your orgams mostly?
My boyfriend was asking as he loves it knowing I really like and need to masturbate frequently as well as our time together. We have sex about twice a week, if our schedules weren't so hectic it would be more and I'll usually masturbate around 3 or 4 times at some point a week.
Usually 6 out of 7 days unless my mental health is playing up! Also solo as I'm single. I usually orgasm 3 or 4 times during a session so that's reasonable amount of orgasms I think!
Probably about 3-4 times a week. All going well sex twice on weekends and once mid week, I may or may not masturbate mid week too,
I sometimes struggle to cum 2 days in a row, if I don't during Sunday sex, this usually equates to more masturbation during the week.a
I usually cum about once a week solo.
About 5 times a week.
I cum every day with his cock inside me, mostly without hand assistance, but occasionally with (sometimes I struggle to cum with penetration alone no matter what he does)
I also normally cum by hand most days when I fancy it. If I can get hold of him at work, he listens in as I do - that gives me a kick, knowing he can hear me and is imaging me in action.
I rarely cum by toys these days. I used to, but I found the orgasms from hand work were much better for me.
I cum on average 6 - 8 times a week, with penetration usually 5 or 6 and the other 1 or 2 being mastubation either alone or together. I do need occationally to mastubate at night if I have insomnia as it relaxes me and helps me sleep.
Usually 6 to 7 times a week mostly by hand. Going through a dry spell with the OH so perhaps only once ot twice making love.
I find its a great stress reliever.
Usually everyday unless I'm planning to have sex then I don't cum for a couple of days
I would say usually 3 times a week. Sometimes more! 
Aww, that's far too many to have alone!Senator wrote:
Probably about 3-4 times a week. All going well sex twice on weekends and once mid week, I may or may not masturbate mid week too,
I sometimes struggle to cum 2 days in a row, if I don't during Sunday sex, this usually equates to more masturbation during the week.a
AmyA wrote:
Usually 6 out of 7 days unless my mental health is playing up! Also solo as I'm single. I usually orgasm 3 or 4 times during a session so that's reasonable amount of orgasms I think!
If orgasming was an Olympic sport then you would win Gold. Fantastic.
i find my "need" to orgasm varies day to day and week to week and this thread shows we are all different. I've discovered P spot orgasms in the last year, solo, and I find that doesn't usually result in ejaculation so I have an option now to have more if I want. Most men find ejaculation requires a recovery time so it limits the possibilities in one session. I too find a masturbation at 1.30 in the morning when I cannot sleep usually helps. I probably masturbate 4 to 5 times a week and if I've got a block of time to myself I would say P spot orgasm every other week. In terms of orgasm from sex then that has varied massively over the years, but currently we are trying to manage at least once a week.
This really depends really. This week was sooo busy and stressful at work that I did not play once until last night. But then I have weeks when I masturbate daily.
Sex wise, I do not have stable partner, just friend with benefits and it bit depends. But generally once a week we have sex, sometimes more than once, but usually just once.
Usually with sex twice a week , and by hand 4or 5 times especially if I’m up late alone as I have a high sex drive so the mind wonders late at night plus I sleep better once released 👍🏼
Amy it’s good to go solo gets you some great orgasms and that’s a good amount in a week 👏🏼👏🏼
AmyA thumbs up 👍🏼
Mostly everyday 2-3 times a day, sex that is
Missnaughtymae wrote:
Mostly everyday 2-3 times a day, sex that is
Impressive.
Haha, certainly is