can you email me back please to talk
tentmad@hotmail.com
GOOD for you Mr & Mrs Sexybeast keep the old fires burning eh!!! I agree we do often attract strange beings on here but somehow I think this lady's genuine and we're here to help if we can after all.I've had brilliant advice from here and met some lovely caring people. I LOVE THIS SITE
Information for the cynical: The programme was titled "Dr. Betty, The 77 year old Sexoloist". It was screened on Channel 4 on Sun 18/11/07 at 23.20 - 00.25 (repeated on S4C in Wales the following Fri, I think). Dr Betty full name Dr. Betty Dodson see details and profile on google including reference to this particular programme.Is that genuine enough for everyone ?
Good for you my friend, I can't stand this "automatic" distrust. Always comes down to the other persons insecurities. We might all need some friendly advice one day, and everyone has something to contribute, even if it is scepticism as that makes us unite all the more. Everyone, if lesley's says someones genuine BELIEVE her.
When do i get my share
Please don't dismiss aprima also known as apin as like "viagra". Aprima acts of you in a completely different way. where "viagra" just stimulates the bits that make the genitals work Aprima stimulates the brain and the drive that then sends the messages to the sex organs to WAKE UP. Thats how I understand it anyway and as I said before it is said to be able to stir sexual feelings in a woman who has lost the sexual desire for her man. I know your not in that situation but think about it for a bit before you write it off. It just might be the thing that will open your door to a new sex life. Please be prepared to invest a bit of positive thought in yourself because if you don't invest in positive thought on your own behalf then who will?
Many of your answers imply that you cant wait to dismiss the suggestions people have gone out of their way to give you.
One more question
Have you had your nervous system tested to check for any damage that might cause the lack of feeling you experience.
As an example you say you cant feel warming lubricants etc but supposing you were to put a spoon into hot water and bring that into contact with your clitoris/vagina would you feel that? Just a thought that might be worth exploring. Please don't hesitate if you want any further discussion on any of the above.
Wishing you well, Sexybeast & Mrs Sexybeast
ok sexy beast where and how would i get hold of Aprima then? is it only available from a doctor? if so then i have a problem dont i? i have no doctor. im willing to try it out but i see a major problem getting my hand s on it.
ok the idea of the teaspon, if i do that all i feel is the pressure of the spoon, or whatever for that matter, i couldnt tell you if say i was blindfolded what on earth it was that he tried to touch me with, in fact if the same pressure was used such as his penis then i couldnt tell the difference, hence why one of the reasons of telling him how or what feels better to me, i cant do that as its all the same just varing amounts of pressure. i have brought this up with my gyn and she did check me out by using several instruments on me while talking to me, she was amazed that i couldnt tell the difference between somthing such as cotton wool and a cocktail stick, she saw that for herself!! i was then given testosterone implants for 9 months, to which i ended up asking her what on earth where they meant to be doing after i reached the highest dose she could give me. after that she had nothing left to try.
im sorry if i come over as negative so far but i really have tried all that we can think of, and not one thing has had any effect at all on me. perhaps i should lei back and accept that im defeated and learn to accept that, as hard as that is to do?
O K first the Aprima there used to be a company called mshwt. They are no longer in business but I have received contact details from www.exact-pharma.com. 0870 240 3665.
I have not ordered from them yet as they don't list what I used to buy from mshwt but I never had any trouble with orders placed with mshwt in either quality or delivery so I can't say if they are as good a company, but hey what have you got to lose.
Now the second part of your answer to us. It sounds so much as if you have nerve damage of some kind which I really hope is not the case. Have you ever had any kind of accident or a back injury that might have had some effect on the nerve in that area. Not wishing to be crude or rude but supposing you put the hot spoon on your anus would that just feel like inanimate pressure or would it burn, hurt or tingle.
Are you on any kind of medication legal or otherwise that may be upsetting your sense of feel. Sorry to ask but once I get a bull by the horns I mean to find an answer however embarrassing that may be. I only wish you well not distress so please bear with me if my questions cut too deep. I am a ruthless in persuer of the truth I'm afraid and reading of your physical lack of feeling down below I want to find an answer for it.
Yours s/beast and mrs s/beast sat beside me as always.
i will lookok for that stuff,
i dont remember having anything happen like that, and if we did that then it would burn i think not that i have ever tried that much!!! on no medicine whatsoever not even b/c or painkilers for headaches only thing ive had done down there was a traumatic birth ending in a c section and then following babies that way too. however i was this way before them so dont think theres a connecton there, only thing i do know that happened was when i was 15 ish and hubby and i met, he would rub himself on me through our clothes and i used to be so sore that i could hardly walk! that was what i since found out to be my clit.
sexybeast what are you on about love? I know you mean well, because you always do,but your getting a bit heavy here with this lady and I'm starting to feel a little uncomfortable with your line of enquiry let alone her. Spoons are for stirring your tea with.
I think the trouble here is we ALL don't know enough about the lady's problem and we ALL want to help (if we can. I want to give her solutions NOT extra problems to think about. I also feel very sorry for her having to answer questions of a highly intimate nature in front of us all. I note with interest that you seem to think there is a problem between sexybeast and myself, well, yes there is!!! Sexybeast is making even ME feel very uncomfortable here as these probing questions are really very personal and I would n't like to answer them let alone the lady in question on here,NO, come on have some sympathy. I've decided to end my postings on here for the moment as this thread has run it's useful course and before we all start to take this personally I'm bowing out gracefully. Love Bubs
Hi Bubs, I see no evidence from the lady concerned that she is uncomfortable with my questions. I also don't think you should bow out at all I think you should still be here for her as she has asked. I haven't asked her to answer any questions on here. Quote from my second post "This will involve questions which you must answer for yourself not us". What part of for yourself not us didn't you understand.
Please Please do take the trouble to read before opening mouth and casting doubts on other peoples intentions in future. Love (and I mean that) s/beast
ps The hot spoon or whatever was intended as away of checking if the nerves were working properly between the brain and the lower back and beyond and as the lady says they would burn her bum but not her clit.
But this is for you
when do i get my share.
YOU have to try the spoons or whatever to actually test if there is a difference not guess but actually try it out to test the nerve reactions. And not tell us but see if it helps YOU.
At the risk of being insulted by this little man again I thought I'd update you all on the work Hubby and I have been doing since the 11 of December.
Hubby has been liasing with her local team to see what if anything is on offer to her, firstly, he made a tentative attempt to see their referral policy, then how to impliment it.Yes, they would take her on to their caseload, but as the help she needs is from SECONDARY care she needed the funding from PRIMARY care (GP). Nothing, in the NHS is possible without funding. She needs to go back to the surgery and register with another GP, as her old GP cannot refuse the medication prescribed by the Consultant. Before you shout again sexybeast at someone who's trying to help, remember, who originally thought she was a FRAUD!!! The upshot of all this is, there IS the help out there for her from some extremely kind professionals and they will be only too pleased to help once the funding is approved, all she has to do is get another GP, easy, if she feels she wants the help.I've emailed all this to her over several days that we've been talking to one another and as yet I've not had a reply to my last email. SO, everyone all that remains is for ME to wish YOU ALL A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS. Love Bubbles.
bubble , i have just read this but i havent had an email from you recently other than to tell me when your hubby was going to work next, last week.
can you resend it to me please
The only one you have n't received by the look of it is the last one,as I've had replies to all the others, odd, I'm so sorry about that, and the fact that you've had to read it on here first, this is not good at all. Well, as you can see from my posting it's all really positive for you, and, you're so lucky because you have a University Teaching Hospital at your disposal. Now it's all up to you my friend, and may I wish you all the LUCK in the WORLD you deserve it as you are a VERY NICE PERSON. Go For It Girl. Hubby and I are here to help should you need it but I think you'll be just fine.
Hi Bubbles, hope this will be of benefit to "our friend" and she will see some light at the end of what as been a dark and very frustrating tunnel of despair.
I think you've been a bit harsh on "sexybeast" though, agreed his orininal response was such I wanted to throw something at him....lol. But he apologised for perhaps misreading the situation and since then I beleive he tried to help as best he could, and let's be honest there are no easy answers.
Original even....not orininal lol.
Can't we get a "modify post" button on this site so we can correct the silly mistakes we should'nt have made in the first place.
Merry Xmas everyone xxxxxxxxxxx
Agreed My SINCERE APOLOGIES to sexybeast.
Better quit OA whilst I'm ahead.
AGREE with "happycamper"....just because you talk sense does'nt mean you have to quit !!!
Good evening ladies.I have been watching this thread for a while now with great interest as I am the woman who writes this alongside sexybeast (this title isn't self appointed, it was given by myself years ago and I have never had the slightest reason to change my mind)
Don't be under any illusions, I am involved in everything and I correct his bad spelling whilst he corrects my grammar(if we fail drink more lol)
I would like Bubblemagic to just be aware that my husband took law
as one of the subjects he has studied in the past and my brother in law is an international lawyer who has successfully sued the French government and subsequently the United Nations.
You have libeled my husband and were it not that we are on the internet I would dearly like to get you by the throat and shake some sense into you.
You have called into question my husbands manhood, his integrity, and physical stature. (Something you will never have the joy of experiencing)
You're not ahead, you are are rude, unapologetic and will never know the the fruits of joy while you are poking your nose into other peoples business.
RE The seven books you reviewed on sexual advice as if you were an expert/critic.
Leave others alone and sort out your own sexual problems first. Goodbye and you're right you NEED to go elsewhere.
To the others on this thread we are sorry but we believe the above evidence (read it carefully) shows that this person is not a helper, but needs help