So I started being FWB with this guy around my age back in February. I didn’t know that’s what he wanted I met him off a dating app and when I asked him what he wanted to be he said he wanted a relationship in the future with me and then after we had sex a few times he back peddled and said no he just wanted to be fwb with hurt me because that’s not what I wanted so he used me basically.
Stupidly I’m still technically his fwb because I’m stupid and he made my mental health go down the toilet. He made me feel like I’m not good enough for anything other than him.
For the past like two weeks, he has still messaged me every day like once or twice a day and before this, it was always every few hours. Now suddenly, he’s going away for the weekend but he was hesitant to tell me at first. I wanted to see him this weekend and he said he couldn’t and I asked why and he kept dodging the question until I got it out of him. Weird right? Just tell me if you are going away if you don’t have anything to hide.
When I first started talking to him, he said he used to have a girlfriend like 2 hours away and she treated him so badly that he said he had to have therapy every week as a result of her. He said he goes every Tuesday after work. Now I have found his account where he streams weekly after work on a Tuesday with his friends. He could do therapy before he does the stream but this seems really suspicious that he is lying to me about things in his life. It is definitely him too because it’s his voice and his face.
He told me where he was going away for the weekend and his “ex girlfriend’s” town is not far away from that place. It’s only like 15 mins away. Am I going crazy or does this seem like he has been lying to me for these past few months about having a girlfriend and he is now visiting her this weekend? He was already treating me really badly before but if this is true he is honestly a really low human being.
He also has nudes of me with my tattoos visible and I’m worried if I stop talking to him, he might release those pictures and videos and people will know it’s me because of the tattoos. My face isn’t in them but my tattoos are. He said he wouldn’t ever share them but if he’s proven to be a liar, I don’t know if he will or won’t share them and I won’t know what to do if he does since we live in a small town everyone will know it’s me.
EDIT: Forgot to add he also told me he was seeing one of his “friends” there and that’s why he was going. Who travels for like 3 hours to see one of their friends if it’s not family or someone they are romantically involved with?