Been very busy over the month and not really made time for each other. Tonight we have suggested we will make time for each other.she is reasonably adventurous so I’d like to surprise her- any idea greatly received!
Not sure. How adventurous are you thinking? Have you tried dom/sub play, with you taking the lead?
For a starter, perhaps you could prepare some of her favourite toys. Maybe then pick out an item or two from the kinky underwear collection & leave them out on the bed for her, with instructions for taking a bath, shaving, doucheing or whatever. Give her a half hour or an hour to get relaxed, clean, kinkily attired & psyched up. Then lead her to the boudoir and blindfold her...
(from this point, I'm presuming you know best what she likes)