Ideas/Suggestions Please

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Hi everyone,

I'm hoping you might be able to give me some help with ideas....

I have to admit to having read 50 shades and lots of other similar themed books, and love the idea of trying some of the scenes out. Would love to try being the dominant one although not sure if I have the confidence to fully do it justice yet though. We already have the sports sheets under the bed restraints, looking for some toys to use in conjunction with these. Can anyone recommend some?

Have looked at flogger, paddles etc as do like being spanked and know oh likes doing this for me but is there one thats better than another? ?

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We recently bought this as an introduction

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21800

It isn't too intimidating and you get different sensations from the 2 different sides but we need to test it further!

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In terms of hurt, the bigger the surface area the less the pain. So paddle < flogger < crop < cane in my experience.
Also pay mind to the material as wood hurts more than leather that hurts more than suede.
And finally flexibility - the stiffer the implement the more it hurts.

The final thing to mention is wartenburg wheels :)

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Sum Sub wrote:

And finally flexibility - the stiffer the implement the more it hurts.

Tell that to the vipers tongue :-P http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25872
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truegrace wrote:

Sum Sub wrote:

And finally flexibility - the stiffer the implement the more it hurts.

Tell that to the vipers tongue :-P http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25872

Ooooh interesting!

I suppose that's a bit whip like isn't it? So it curls up and delivers a real sting.

*adds to wishlist*

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I agree with Capricorn, the lovehoney satin paddle is a great starter toy! I have it, and I also have the matching crop, which leaves pretty little hearts on your bottom!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21802

There's also the flogger, it's really little and doesn't give as much as a bite as others can, it's quite gentle really.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21801

You could also try out some bondage tape, it's so much fun!!

Or if you like glass, this is amazing! But I would practice with other floggers first to get the feel of it because this one can hurt!!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25823

It's very long, and because it is so long I find that if you're not careful it can wrap around your body and sting you somewhere you don't want it to! But it's definitely my favourite at the minute :)

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Sum Sub wrote:


truegrace wrote:



Sum Sub wrote:

And finally flexibility - the stiffer the implement the more it hurts.

Tell that to the vipers tongue :-P http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25872


Ooooh interesting!

I suppose that's a bit whip like isn't it? So it curls up and delivers a real sting.

*adds to wishlist*

probably the most painful thing we own, really can pack a nasty punch, but it is oh so good, just wish i had not held off buying it for months, wouldn't be without it now!

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more painful than a cane truegrace?

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Yeah, well, we have the 2 rattan canes, this can sting alot more especially the flick round if done right, and rolls up quite small so alot easy to carry around.

leaves better welts than a cane as well which is always a massive plus.

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I've wanted a tawse for a while now but this might just jump up to no1. Although it is tawse-like

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Sum Sub wrote:

I've wanted a tawse for a while now but this might just jump up to no1. Although it is tawse-like

you wont regret it, although really aint for the faint hearted!

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Thanks truegrace

:D I'm not so faint hearted as I used to be!

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capricorn13 wrote:

We recently bought this as an introduction

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21800

It isn't too intimidating and you get different sensations from the 2 different sides but we need to test it further!

MrsMcX wrote:

I agree with Capricorn, the lovehoney satin paddle is a great starter toy! I have it, and I also have the matching crop, which leaves pretty little hearts on your bottom!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21802

There's also the flogger, it's really little and doesn't give as much as a bite as others can, it's quite gentle really.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21801

You could also try out some bondage tape, it's so much fun!!

Or if you like glass, this is amazing! But I would practice with other floggers first to get the feel of it because this one can hurt!!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25823

It's very long, and because it is so long I find that if you're not careful it can wrap around your body and sting you somewhere you don't want it to! But it's definitely my favourite at the minute :)

capricorn13 wrote:

We recently bought this as an introduction

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21800

It isn't too intimidating and you get different sensations from the 2 different sides but we need to test it further!

Thankyou all for the suggestions I will have a peruse through these 😁