Is there someone (a neighbour etc) that you would if you could.

Yes, there's a neighbour that I find interesting, but the thing with him is that he's easy on the eye, but for me is his outgoing personality and sense of humour that makes me fancy him. I don't have what we'd call sexual desires for him, but I do enjoy the flirting (he flirts with me as well) and the fact that he makes me very relaxed. I do sometimes find other guys hot, but again I usually know them and their personalities count for 80, 85% of the attraction. I'm married, love my husband and in 18 years together I've never cheated on him or considering doing so, however I don't think it's wrong finding other guys interesting as I don't act on that, so not big deal for me.