My gf finds it hard to let herself go. I've tried baby oil massages then foreplay, scented candles music etc... But still won't...any thoughts on oils etc which would relax and increase sensitivity???...
Hi magichands! I find this massage oil in Lavender really relaxing http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26221 although it can make me sleepy, I find this can be avoided by not using too much! You could also try a blindfold if she felt comfortable with that, she might be able to lie back, relax, and let go a bit more. We like this one, and it really just looks like a sleep mask http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28736 it's in 3 for £10 deal so you could pick up a few extra massage items too. We really like these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28692 and the heat and pressure are very relaxing, but also seductive!