If you intend doing the intimate areas then I would suggest certain lubes rather than oils . With oils there is a risk of your lady getting a yeast infection . On guys I think its OK unless your planning on penatrative sex afterwards .
A sexy nurse uniform could also set the scene but becareful about getting oils on clothes as they can be a pain to remove.
I love all my massages to begin with either our 7 row pinwheel or vampire gloves. I don't know if it's just cos prickly stuff is my thing, but it brings my skin to life. It reddens it, increases sensetivity tenfold, and when my hubby switches to his hands and hot oil from a candle the intensity of each touch is astounding. Sometimes I get so turned on it leads to sex, but on other occasions I zone out to the point where I fall asleep.
I'm a professional Spa Therapist, I could help a little!
Keep movements flowing, try not to break contact. I would suggest watching a couple of youtube videos and search "Lomi Lomi" techniques, they are pretty fool proof just don't massage directly over the spine as it hurts. This technique involves using arms to massage with instead of hands, and feels so so so amazing! When massaing the legs, use a fairly firm pressure ( a tickle is no good) but as you glide up the back of the thigh spread your hands a little and apply very thin pressure with your fingertips on the inner parts of the thighs, this will get anyone going.
Don't forget a scalp massage.. aim to massage the SCALP and not the hair otherwise it get's too noisy. Put their ear lobes between your finger and thumbs and gently rub over their ears, this feels delicious. You can turn their head to the side and with your nails, claw through their hair/scalp on the back of the neck/head. This movement makes your toes tingle when done right. I know I should be all about the Love Honey pebbels but try looking on somewhere like amazon or ebay for some actual hot stones.. something a little larger. You could heat them up in a slow cooker but dont get them too hot. Use them with a fairly firm pressure but avoid pressing hard on the bones. The hot stone massage is personally my favourite to do as it is super super relaxing..
Phew! Reading all of this it really is no surprise I am so busy at work! Hope this helps? Obviously use these and sex it up a little! (I don't do that at work!)
Read some articles online about the erogenous zones: http://www.prevention.com/sex/better-sex/erogenous-zones-better-sex
Lots of candles and calming zen music, I like this guy on youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/user/ILoveJuicyShow
I also enjoy jazz covers of popular songs, so many on spotify searching "jazz".
Durex 2 in 1 massage oils are lovely, if not a little sticky, if you are planning on a happy ending. They smell great too and are sold on LH.
Hi I like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25363 for massaging my OH. It smells good feels great and is very good to worth with. My OH has bad knees so I massage his legs a lot.
I usually get him to lay on his front, I start at the feet and ancles working up the calves, through the thighs, then get him to roll over onto his back. Again feet first work up through his shins and onto the thighs.i like to make sure my boobs brush his legs, while I'm massaging his thighs, and when I get to the top of his thighs, I enjoy giving him a blow job.
I'm a professional Spa Therapist, I could help a little!
Keep movements flowing, try not to break contact. I would suggest watching a couple of youtube videos and search "Lomi Lomi" techniques, they are pretty fool proof just don't massage directly over the spine as it hurts. This technique involves using arms to massage with instead of hands, and feels so so so amazing! When massaing the legs, use a fairly firm pressure ( a tickle is no good) but as you glide up the back of the thigh spread your hands a little and apply very thin pressure with your fingertips on the inner parts of the thighs, this will get anyone going.
Don't forget a scalp massage.. aim to massage the SCALP and not the hair otherwise it get's too noisy. Put their ear lobes between your finger and thumbs and gently rub over their ears, this feels delicious. You can turn their head to the side and with your nails, claw through their hair/scalp on the back of the neck/head. This movement makes your toes tingle when done right. I know I should be all about the Love Honey pebbels but try looking on somewhere like amazon or ebay for some actual hot stones.. something a little larger. You could heat them up in a slow cooker but dont get them too hot. Use them with a fairly firm pressure but avoid pressing hard on the bones. The hot stone massage is personally my favourite to do as it is super super relaxing..
Phew! Reading all of this it really is no surprise I am so busy at work! Hope this helps? Obviously use these and sex it up a little! (I don't do that at work!)