As many have already stated in this discussion, if you are getting everything you need, who cares. If wanking is taking away from sex life then there is a problem.
I donāt mind my hubby masturbating/wanking off
He has a higher sex drive than myself
And as I say to him Iād rather him have a wank than be sexually frustrated
Nah doesnt bother me in the slightest. usually turns me on if he tells me heās done it
I would mind, and Iām glad my husband doesnāt do it. I have a high sex drive, and I basically would never say no. If he needs sex, he only has to slip it in me. I have some greedy little orifices that will soak up anything he wants to leave behind.
Masturbation is part of our relationship. We both do it when the need arises. I donāt mind my man pleasuring himself. We donāt make a secret about our solo time and we often have mutual sessions. We have no shame or inadequacy in masturbating.