May I offer an alternate point of view? I know kristen.and I can assure you that she fully understands the value of the community here. I know this because she and I have crossed paths in the past in other forums in a seach for just such a community as the one you all described here.
I think it's very possible that some may have misinterpreted her question as a request to be gifted, but I am certain that is not the case. Instead, I think she wanted to vicariously experience the idea of what it would feel like to be gifted - kind of an out loud fantasy. I sincerely doubt that she would arrive here in this forum with out stretched hand. My guess is that her original post was really just intended to savor the idea and enjoy how it might feel, and nothing more.
Anyway, that's the view from my keyboard.