Well I guess given the nature of this site there aren't really many lonely people here, but we all get lonely sometimes - don't we...?
I feel a bit alone tonight so I'm here just seeing who's about and who's saying what :)
I'm alone, have been for ages, don't often feel loanly. Sometime I do of course, but not often. Thankfully. *hug*
kitty x
Aw thank you.
It's funny you should be the first because I've been admiring your profile pic ever since I came to this site. Gorgeous contraption that is, kinda handcuffy but looks more awkward.
Thanks :), I'm thinking of changing it when I can think of what to have instead. I think they are gorgeous, I want to get some at some point.
It's the age old thing, you can feel loanly in a crowd. I enjoy my own company (jokes aside) too much of it is a bad thing for me so I need to keep an eye on that. I hate feeling loanly but as i say, doesn't happen too often any more.
kitty x
Come join the general chitter chatter over here:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/off-topic/1009446-good-morning-afternoon-and-evening-17/
(when there's more people about, 10.30pm isn't that popular a time!)
I would definitely like to try those on too! Preferably with one of my wrists in one ring, and someone else's in the other :)
I tend to be able to control my loneliness, it normally doesn't bother me. I think it's like stopping the flow of water though, eventually now and again it gets released. Tonight is one of those nights, although I've actually just seen something incredibly erotic which I'll post in another thread, which has cheered me up a bit...
I guess I should make turn the word "lonely" into my middle name - sadly enough, it would not be possible because names that are not "normal" given names (either Czech or foreign) are not allowed over here ;-)
Now, seriously, I have never had any luck with dating which means I spend a lot of time alone - and being lonely. When I am surrounded by people who actually are dating or have families on their own, I feel lonely too, since I am the only one who is somehow left out...
You are definitely not the only one who feels lonely, take my word for it...
Profile picture changed, not sure for how long, I don't like change, lol.
I think they are just beautiful. One day.
I know what you mean, somtimes, it can catch up on you.
What's cheered you up? Point me in the right direct pls.
Ok Sum Sub, I'll have a peek. I do like a peek.
kitty x
Well check out my "Control another person's body" thread...blew my mind!
liplocked wrote:
Well check out my "Control another person's body" thread...blew my mind!
Interesting potential.
kitty x
I just posted something on the "What cheered me up recently....." thread. That made me smile. lol
kitty x
Another lonely person here. All I do is work, I can't get any luck dating with my lack of energy. I'm a bit of a defective female really!
I get lonely. But when I do I make sure I get out and about x
im married with a 5 year old son who is my life and im lonley as hell. My sex life ended before he was born and the only relief i get is through masturbation. I have always enjoyed anal stimulation and whenever i get the opportunity this is my main sexual outlet nowadays and all i will ever get. You dont have to be on your own to be lonley .....i know that feeling all to well
liplocked wrote:
Well I guess given the nature of this site there aren't really many lonely people here
The forum has become pretty focused on sex and couples (or more), but it hasn't always been this way. There are probably people reading who'd like to post more and would if they came across threads which felt more relevant to them. I'm vanilla and single and I know I struggle to find anything I can say something useful on most days.
Welcome to the forums. :-)
Currently fishing in pof for a keeper.. Divorced and single for 3 yes...and it is about time for a bit of cuddles etc from a fella( and try out some of me new toys on!)
43 and divorced.. Might take time... But I come here and let off steam with my forum buddies... So not truely alone anymore😊
21 and sworn off sex for a while, I can only stand a few people and my cat, getting laid has just been too much of a bother so I might as well explore my sexuality on my own for a while. There's no hurry and with lovehoney's help there's no excuse for getting bored.
I get lonely sometimes but it's never as bad as it used to be when I forced myself to socialize, and I know other people won't make me feel less lonely so I just grab some ice cream and wait it out.
I became very lonely when I split with the father of my son, mainly because of my ill health, I lost all my friends. I became the crazy cat lady! They helped, but weren't quite enough, until my occupational therapist suggested online sites to make friends. I knew I didn't want to have a relationship, but tried POF, but hated it. All the people stating that they were looking for friendship, really just wanted one night stands. I met one guy who suggested a swingers site, at first I thought no way, but curiosity got the better of me!
I soon discovered swingers clubs and made friends, socialised a hell of a lot, went to fancy dress parties, chilled out naked in hot tubs and pools and bagged myself a regular friend with benefits. Quickly realised swinging isn't all about sex, but meeting new people and making friends, anything else is a bonus.
If it wasn't the swinging site, with Lovehoneys advert on, I may not have found the site and now I like to buy lingerie to wear at clubs and toys for myself or my FWB. Its all been a huge positive in my life and no longer lonely. Best thing is, I still get to have my bed all to myself. I don't miss sharing my bed, thats for sure!