So I've been doing some research trying to decide on choosing my first masturbator. I'm looking for something that's easy to clean, discreet and will hold up to some use. And something that's relatively gentle, but has enough stimulation to get the job done. I don't really care about an "authentic" feel, I just want something different than my wife and my hand. Right now I'm waffling between a Tenga Flip Hole and one of the Tenga sleeves.
I really like the idea of Tenga Flip Hole with the buttons and easy cleaning and all. But my girth is almost 5.75" and I'm worried the Flip Hole might be too tight. Of the four colors, it seems like the Red might be the best choice for a thick guy, based on the some reviews I've read and the Tenga size chart. I've read reviews that say a FH is way too small for a larger guy. I've read other reviews that say the FH is fine for larger guys once it's broken in.
Then again, I'm thinking maybe a Tenga sleeve would be a better first-time choice. They're cheaper, so if I end up not liking it I won't hate myself for wasting as much money. And maybe a sleeve would be a better "gateway drug" to something else. From what I've read, it looks like most guys prefer the Spiral and the slightly less intense Polygon.
Anybody care to share advice/opinions/suggestions? I'm a little overwhelmed.