Newbie advice

Sex Toys
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Hi.

I'm looking for some advice as a total newbie. I am thinking of buying a male masturbator but there are so many to choose from!

I'm quite keen on having something vibrating. Is it a different feeling to a normal orgasm?

I don't really like the idea of a Fleshlight. I have been looking at strokers but I don't really want anything too tight.

Many thanks!

Flip-flop

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I think any sex toy feels different to using your hand. Different toys can produce different strengths of orgasm too. For example, my partner has stronger orgasms when he uses something vibrating or textured as these seem to provide the most stimulation for him.

If you don’t want anything too tight or realistic, then I’d recommend stretchier strokers like the Tenga eggs as they have so much give to them and they come in a range of different textures. They are disposable and cheap too so if one texture doesn’t work for you, another one might.

My partner’s favourite is this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24048

He’d also recommend these two;

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17116

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26912 (This one in particular for newbies)

For vibrating options:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39119

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38270

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33870 (We haven’t personally tried this one but it’s well-rated by others)

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Can't add anything to above xx

Oh apart from - welcome and hope you find what you are looking for xx

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Thanks very much for your comments.

I do like the look of the octopuss, I like the idea of having it over my penis, as apposed to actually putting it in something. Do you need to strike with this, or is just the vibration enough to orgasm do you think?

I am a bit worried about buying a toy, but I guess it's fairly normal for most people!

Thanks,
Flip-flop

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What is it about the Fleshlight that you don’t like?

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Hi. There isn't really anything in particular that I don't like, it's just a few things that put me off. I guess it's just the fact you can't see what's going on! Ha.

I'm a bit worried it might be tight, (not because I have a big penis!)

The idea of cumming inside it, and the cleaning.

But you guys maybe able to convince me! Is it a better experience than a vibrating toy?

Thanks, really appreciate your help.

Flip-flop

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The Tenga egg I had was ok, but certainly not mindblowing.... I can imagine the bigger Tenga one is much better, but Ive not tried one yet so i can't comment (Ive always liked the idea of it tho).

Try a cheaper one first, and see if you like the idea... then you can invest in a better one!

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NatandTom wrote:

I think any sex toy feels different to using your hand. Different toys can produce different strengths of orgasm too. For example, my partner has stronger orgasms when he uses something vibrating or textured as these seem to provide the most stimulation for him.

If you don’t want anything too tight or realistic, then I’d recommend stretchier strokers like the Tenga eggs as they have so much give to them and they come in a range of different textures. They are disposable and cheap too so if one texture doesn’t work for you, another one might.

My partner’s favourite is this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24048

He’d also recommend these two;

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17116

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26912 (This one in particular for newbies)

For vibrating options:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39119

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38270

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33870 (We haven’t personally tried this one but it’s well-rated by others)

Nat thanks for this advice too. I've tried a double sided LH stroker, but tbh I'm a bit girthy for it regardless of the amount of lube and it "hurts" at the moment of orgasm; as you can imagine I've only tried it a few times. I may give the Tenga a go.

Flip Flop, I've used a bullet vibe on my penis holding it against the frenulum and glans. Don't be tempted to rub your penis, just let the vibrations do their thing. It doesn't take long to orgasm and does feel very different as it kinda builds from inside your testicles, all very intense and it makes a change.

MS@50