Loosing erection - cock ring help

I’m glad you gave your age as age is probably the biggest factor in what you’re going through.

I had a much older ex that went through this and have been waiting for my current partner (early 50s) to maybe start going through it. It’s just a natural drop in testosterone.

However, the worst thing you can do is get anxious as this then turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I like to think we’re prepared for the day when it comes (without getting stressed about it) as we’ve talked about how age and hormones are starting to affect us.

There are a few options you can use if you’re having a problem getting your own happy ending. You could invest in something like the Hot Octopus Pulse or the Fun Factory Manta as with these toys (or a similar wand attachment) don’t need an erection. If you use hands/toys/tongue on your wife you can use one of these on yourself and no longer worry about losing your erection.

The lack of anxiety alone will go a long way to helping you back to normal.

I’ve already posted my thoughts on your issue but one I forgot to mention is that it might be an idea to look into your diet.

What your eating and how much your eating can be a factor. As the body needs a lot of energy anyway but more so when your using the old chap.

I used to eat a lot of sweet things and chocolate especially and this would have a bad effect on my penis, I also a one point wasn’t eating a lot not as much as I should. This definately can cause issues with how you perform.

So check that out as well, look into your diet and eating habits.

I agree, keeping fit and eating healthily helps. It may be an idea to take an over 50’s multi-vitamin too. You can get them quite cheap from certain bargain High St shops.

Following this topic with interest, as have also started experiencing loss of erection at times e.g. changing position or putting on condom. Have also tried a cock ring without much success. Wondering about trying butt plug as that’s got me v hard with solo play, though don’t want to be too overstimulated that I finish too quickly.

Will also try GP through not sure how easy it is to get appointment at moment. Wondering how those resorting to Cialis/Viagra etc have got on.

Being v open with wife has helped though and we now don’t get too phased if it goes soft at wrong moment, finding other ways to carry on a session.

I’m totally solo sexually now, I always use viagra when masturbating, works really well, sometimes twice in a few hours, definitely something I don’t regret using and not embarrassed to admit I have to use it even for solo pleasure.

Can I suggest Sir that you also seek out some medical advice from your GP. Just to check that everything is okay.

You will know that ti don’t need to be rock hard to cum, if am super horny and alone I’ll pull it out and get cracking, want to cum to help with the horny feeling and if it’s just a real quick one of the wrist it’s not usually rock hard.

I wouldn’t rely on viagra too much.