Hi everyone,
I've just bought the Lovehoney Deluxe Magic Wand. Has anyone used it to massage back etc? If so was it any good? Also in the reviews a guy said that he had reached orgasm with the toy, just wondering how would a guy use this to reach orgasm? Probably a obvious question but I'm fairly new to the site and the products!
Wands are excellent for massage. They were originally designed for massage before people found other uses. We use ours for massage all the time. It might lead on to other uses, but it always starts as a massage.
I can't imagine that I would have an orgasm, but being stroked by it is a big turn on and it would certainly get me a fair way there. Having said that, there is a stroker attachment that gets excellent reviews and I imagine that could do the job:
We have used it for non-sexual massage, and it's pretty good, but short lived results.
I am a bloke, and I have been bought to orgasm with it...
1) Using an attachment to stimulate my prostate
2) direct stimulation of the penis (watch out on the glans though - WHOA!)
3) stimulation of the perineum/balls, this is the most difficult way to achieve orgasm.
4) used on a stroker or masturbator to increase the intensity.
5) Used on a chastity cage
There are many attachments you can buy for both sexes
Yes, I have used the magic wand as an actual massager, and on the lower settings it is really good - just make sure you use lubricant/massage oil as the head of the wand or on the skin to make it easier to glide the wand head over the body.
Yes, men can reach orgasm using the wand (myself included) by using the wand to either stimulate the frenulum or the perineum (the bit between the balls and bum) - when intense vibrations are applied to these area, it can provide intense stimulation and lead to orgasm.
Hope this helps!
I was one of the reviewers who said it could bring my guy to orgasm. It was the first vibrator to do so and since that, a few more have been able to....
See, the thing with the Deluxe Wand (and other extremely powerful vibes) is that the vibrations are not just surface level. They actually travel deep into the tissues (which is why they are good at massaging muscles...as a side note) When you hold these vibrators against the penis, the vibrations travel throughout the whole penis and stimulate all the nerve endings that feel good and so there are lots of men who can orgasm from vibrations.
Although the wand is great for male orgasms, we actually highly recommend the Pulse - bu Hot Octopuss:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30212
This is my partners favourite male vibrator and the vibrations on it are of the deep, oscillating kind that travel deep and feel great!
As for how to use the wand, to make him orgasm, it depends on his tastes really. I can literally just hold the head of the wand against his shaft and leave it still and he will have an intense orgasm. I have also applied lube and just slid the head of the wand up and down his shaft. I have applied the head of the wand to his perineum (The skin between anus and testicles, or anus and vagina on women) and added a little pressure and then masturbated him as usual and the vibrations travel through his prostate and up his penis and heighten every sensation. You can buy attachments, including a stroker:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28560
or you can use a normal stroker on him and touch the wand to the side of it to turn it into a vibrating stroker (although be careful of doing this. The wand vibrates so fast and hard it can damage other toys or "burn" jelly type strokers due to friction)
You can buy insertable attachments, to stimulate his prostate:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29919
Or use some lube with this larger, flat attachment and allow it to slide over his penis as it will envelop his shaft and cover more area:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22684
There are so many ways to play with the wand and the vibrations are so powerful, I often use it to "force" him to a second orgasm. Yep...it can give men multiple orgasms too!
use it against your hands as you touch yourself in usual way...
I have a friend who found a magic wand like massager at his grandma's and found he loved the feelig of just pressing it against his erection, I guess vibrations feel good whatever genitals you happen to have, experiment and you'll find out!
We have only just got our wand and are still finding many different ways to use it but it is just amazing.