My lovely husband bought me a Lelo Smart Wand for my birthday and the other night I decided to use it on him. The result was most definitely positive, like *REALLY* positive. Which surprised me as most toys tend to leave him cold - either the vibration is too much or too little and just annoys him.
Anyway, I'd not given it a full charge and it 'died' before it could finish the job (His little face when it did LOL!) but I fully intend to use it properly again. However, I just wanted to check that there aren't any potential negative effects from prolonged usage on the penis? I know these bad boys can sometimes cause your ladyparts to desensitize and I thought I'd check before I give him Vibration White Penis or some such. Anything I need to be aware of?
I've used the Lovehoney mini wand this way, combined with oral, with no issues. But we do tend to do this as part of foreplay rather than for longer or to orgasm.
(other bullets / vibes on him work just as well for us but especially ones with a broader buzzing area rather than a pin-point bullet. The pebble shaped clit-stimulators are best, we have found).
We have a couple of male attachments for out magic wand and 70% of the time they work brilliantly but, depending on my mood, they can sometimes take too long and then I can become numb just as you describe.
My husband loves to use my wand although it works too well on him and he cannot last long with it before he cums! If it's for foreplay I may use it on myself and orgasm (I can go a number of times) but then just give him a quick buzz with it to get him super excited. If we are short on time and just need to finish I will just use it on him through his underwear and he can cum with an easier cleanup. I'm sure he uses it on his own also when I am not there.
Wands are awesome male sex toys. We have a doxy, which at the higher settings could probably piledrive through tarmac, and i've never had any kind of longlasting issue with numbness. I have occasionally lost the ability to walk and speak though...
I often use a magic wand on my penis - it feels amazing. I have not noticed any side effects, although it feels numb after a while, I enjoy experimenting with the different settings. This is the wand my partner and I use - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31404
Although this may sound daft, one to consider is the now discontinued "Satisfyer Pro" or newer equivalents which although designed to be used on a clit, the sucking feeling is amazing when applied to the tip of a penis.
Lots of imitation on this wand which hub and I use always. A little heavy on the vibrating drum and comes only in white colour (always seen in American BDSM porns movies). B'cos it's heavy, the various speeds/vibrations held against my clit and/or his P is super stable when strapped. Hub has been using various for the last 3 decades and there is no visible side effects except one - he cannot orgasm easily inside me cos there's no vibration inside.
Wands work great on men and my boyfriend loves it. I usually use it on him through his clothes and it works so good that he cant last more than a few minutes!
Husband lives the wand. I usually combine with oral and hand to give extra stimulation. I do like to tease a bit with the wand,hand mouth mix and usually ends up exploding. No complaints so far
...I thought I'd check before I give him Vibration White Penis or some such. Anything I need to be aware of?
Not a doctor or anything, but I've read "vibration white finger" relates to nerves, blood vessels, muscles, tendons & joints. Not too many joints or muscles, tendons or joints in my penis! :D
Seriously though, we're talking about a toy designed for genital play and not a jackhammer. Most numbness goes away pretty quick in my experience. Just overstimulation, is all!