Masturbation in a relationship

[SirShagALot]

Been married over 25 years. Wife says she has never masturbated. I definitely do She knows I do and is happy I leave her alone for a bit Still have sex about twice a week.

[white-butterfly]

Oh he knows, I have a higher drive than my husband and I help myself when he’s not in the mood. He doesn’t mind at all and he’s admitted that he still does it too.

[Flipper22]

We both know sometimes watch each other or help each other. Also do solo and tell each other or send pics and sometimes catch one another when we think were alone.

[Fire_Ice1]

We both watch porn solo sometimes and masturbate and use toys. We don’t massively talk or tell each other about it much. Sometimes when wife is out of the country we send each other messages about it.

[Barnybear18]

I normally take care of myself once every week or 2, Mrs Bear has no interest at the moment so just a quick go before work relieves the pressure for me. We have masturbated together in the past and she does have toys but I have no idea if she still uses them.

[Gazza_64]

It’s ok your only what cums natural as long your not doing it in puplic and using anything that may get you into trouble !

[batjamboree]

It’s important in our relationship that if I need a quick release or he does we ask each other - there are days I’m not in the mood but love wanting him off - just wonderful being asked to help him out - and the same with me - I may need a quick fiddle and he will always oblige

The only time i masterbate now is when he is working away and we video call

[Pendy1981]

Even though the Mrs isn’t very well at the moment and our sex life has taken a bit of a back seat. Our relationship together is amazing, she is a part of me and we are so comfortable with eachother in any given situation. I’m horny 24/7 and I have been since I remember. I wake up nearly every morning with a hard on and she really gets turned on by it. I end up masturbating nearly every time, unless she wakes up first and does the job for me. Because I haven’t woken up fully and she’s watching me a bit dazed and enjoying her touch, she gets so excited and starts playing with herself. Waking up to this is absolutely amazing and is such a turn on for the both of us. We have never had a problem with masturbation and both enjoy it even more now.

[Hubby.and.Wife]

We masturbated solo for years but knew the other did it
It’s only been about the last 10-12 years after wife read the 50 Shades series that she and us as a couple became a bit more curious about sexual pleasure that we spoke about it
We also purchased a few sex toys at the same time as to play together
We now masturbate together as part of our sex life
I would say I still masturbate more than her but I often masturbate with her watching me

[Smallguy]

I masterbate I’m married as we don’t get much of a chance for sex I’m horny quite often but my wife isn’t

[DevilishDan]

We mutual masturbate frequently, either us doing ourselves or each other. We do this more than intercourse.
Solo I masturbate most nights, it helps me sleep OH doesn’t know about this as I wait until he falls asleep. As for OH’s habits I’m not too sure about to be honest. Back in the day we both had very warped views on sex and I was a firm ‘masturbation is yuck’. Now of course I think it’s quite healthy and hope he does whack one out in the shower or when I’m away. One day I hope to catch him and watch

[Southuk6]

Been married for many years and both masturbate fairly regularly. The wife has only more recently been open to masturbating since I purchased her a few toys from LH. This opened her mind to the joys of some alone time!
I don’t see anything wrong with masturbating in a long term relationship. A bit of me time is never a bad thing as it gives you an opportunity to experiment new things without any pressures

[KinkyMinxMoo]

For context, I am in a long term relationship and have multiple partners.

I solo masturbate quite a lot, almost daily, often multiple times; I don’t make a point of letting my partners know but it is not a secret.

There are various reasons for the above.

[SeaSideCpl]

For the most part, we do it together, either masturbating each other, or individually with the other watching - I in particular get a real kick out of this, somehow seems so intimate. We both also occasionally masturbate solo, probably me more than her, and I usually tell her.

[Exploringmore]

We are in a long term relationship and both regularly masturbate, either together mutually or solo. I generally have a higher drive than Mrs E, and will check if she’s ok with a ‘bed rocker’ or if she would prefer if I went off and sorted myself out.
I always hope for a bed rocker, as just occasionally she will be turned on by my self pleasure, and will join in!

[Arctic_owl]

The first time the OH walked in on me wanking i must have been like a rabbit in headlights , didn’t last long though as she soon gave me a hand, and then a finger as well as she got really turned on catching me, which in turn got me more horny.

[Em01]

When I’m previous relationships I have still sometimes preferred to masturbate instead of have sex. Gives me a chance to really fantasise

[ben-1982]

Myself and wife both do solo even though we rarely talk about it, we know each other do and very occasionally we do it together. I used to frequently on my own, sometimes to porn, but have cut back considerably and prefer now not viewing porn. instead I edge myself, breath, make it last and as it’s less frequent it feels amazing. Feels like I have more energy by doing it this way. The thought of my wife masturbating makes me super horny and I would love to catch her and join in occasionally.

[our-adventure-bed]

Sex between us involves quite a lot of masturbation in various forms - mainly my wife using toys while we make love.
It’s the hottest thing.
On holiday recently when we had to be quiet, we had a session where I was using my fingers gently inside her, and she rubbed herself to orgasm.
It’s a very intimate and special thing. She was a little shaky and teary afterwards - in a good way!
On Saturday we did something I thoroughly recommend.
We were trying out a G Spot vibrator on her and she used my hand to rub her pussy.
I was in a slightly awkward position, so we need to try it again, but OMG - it was the sexiest thing I could imagine!
I could feel that at times she was maybe in her head - or just not quite feeling it properly - but the times when she was fully in the zone were just amazing.
I think that’s a mind, body and soul connection. For me it is mentally very sexy and stimulating, physically it’s really incredible and it’s as connected as two souls can be I think.
Special moment

[Iwill]

Im sure he’d love it… i really enjoy and get a kick out of my wife watching .
I also love watching her pleasure herself.