I'm looking to make masturbation more fun for me. Currently I dress up in my lingerie and watch some porn until I'm sufficiently hard enough to start masturbating. Generally that takes place either in my bed or on sofa (depending on how the mood takes me). This is starting to get a bit ..... shall we say "samey" (not even sure that's a word)
Any suggestions on how to make male masturbation a bit more exciting rather than just feeling like I'm going through the motions.
Maybe try masturbating in different locations ? Or watch a different kind of porn than you usually do ? What about getting a stroker ( if you haven't already got one ) to add a slightly different sensation to your hand ?
I reckon change the times of the day and the places can make a difference. I personally think when you do something because you've to, this makes you get into that going through the motions kind of frame of mind.
Obviously we can't just do whenever and wherever we feel like, but maybe just do it if you really feel the urge or you're really hoprny rather than do it just because you're there or have some spare time. I see for myself because I like to masturbate when I'm alone in the house, privacy for me is very important, but Thursday and Friday afternoons, I felt like I wasn't really horny so I just didn't do it. I felt a bit like I was missing out on my precious "me" time, but then I just had a nice sleep and caught up on my reading which really made me feel very good afterwards.
Masturbating is about personal preference some men like different things while masturbating, try sex toys they are some very good male masturbators that feel total amazing and prostate massagers. If your not into using sex toys try some lube I find the tingle one works quite well
Dressing up is fun if you are alone in the house, make a day of it by being kinky just watching tv making your dinner then put a porn film on in the livingroom, do you have a partner to write to while dressing up watching porn you dont have to send them it as its just to add to the fun, If no partner thats fine why not think of someone who is sexy to you a friend a singer etc... and write to them just as if you were really gong to give it to them. if its a letter be sure to shred it as you wouldn't want anyone to find it lol
Don't know if this is helpful but only ever having solo fun myself I know what you mean.
I have realised that just as you might have different types of session with a partner you can give yourself a different type of session. Sometimes I am in the mood to be slow, tease and sometimes I want rough treatment. I know men maybe don't have quite the same variety of toys as us ladies but I use different toys depending on what type of session I want. If I want slow I might start off wearing a plug for a while then clamps to start the main event (sounds more like rough but it's not) and go from there. If I want things a bit more rough and down to business it's probably anal beads or anal dildo, strong bullet vibe etc. Nice music is good for a slow session, porn for a rougher time.
I think it helps to take a moment to consider what you feel like you need, it's too easy to go on automatic without thinking and use the same old tried and trusted.
I used to wear stocking suspenders etc and walk my dog, go shopping or even visit friends. When I was on late shift, I'd go for a walk and have an outdoor wank.