Hi everyone - I’m just looking for some advice.
Lately I’ve found my masturbation sessions getting quite monotonous, it almost feels like a chore and my orgasms are never as intense as they used to be
Any advice would be really appreciated, I just want to bring back the spark!!
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Definitely a 
about giving yourself a break. For me edging over days gives me a more satisfying session as i get more kinky, I start to set up the video camera and think of ways to masturbate as if I was to show someone. Example I really love seeing facial expressions when watching porn or if I’m in a relationship, so recently I have been setting up the camera and just filming my face to show my face expressions while I have been edging over the days,with the thought one day I will be able to show someone this video.
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Try abstaining for a while, the building anticipation might make the experience more intense.
What about going on a webcam site, its not for everyone but it you are a bit of an exhibitionist and it might add excitement to what you are doing.
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How do you masterbate?. What if any toys do you use? We can then offer some better advice. @OBrienR
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Another vote for abstinence and also a having a decrease in exposure to porn
I find myself having a break from the Reddit sub forums I frequent helps.
Another one might me to learn to edge abit, my Mrs gets more and more horny the longer we have sex but no climax for her (sorry love!). She does however have a seemingly very nice climax after a week or so with no climax
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I am somewhat of an expert at self gratification , been self pleasuring for about two decades . Depending on season , I often take a multi day break . I use video similar to @teacake , but my face is the last thing I need to see . I have " several " toys and somewhat rotate them through . I guess the biggest thing I use to help is my imagination . I will use porn clips or home made porn along with memories of my former very active sex life . Some times all it takes is to wear a pair of panties or lace stockings to make me a member in good standings . For reference , I have posted several photos in the lingerie thread . That brings me back to my imagination , I often fantasize that my photos are used by others to aid them in their sessions . I often remind myself , masturbation is not a race or competition . Happy enjoying yourself .
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Try butt plugs or maybe sounding to spice up your masturbation sessions.
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It does get very boring. Try hook-ups instead, are you on Fabs or tinder?
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I love to play with myself and use different toys / places it just dress up slutty - never gets boring
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