ok so its a little early for christmas but was starting to think about my elf on the shelf.
on christmas eve the elf leaves kids a little christmas box pjs dvd sweets etc.
i am thinking the elf might leave my OH a little gift too this year. just a little hamper with some things he might like but he always leaves me to do the lovehoney shop so need help from the boys, whats you fav things or what would you want the elf to leave??
i want to include toys and some sexy undies so please let me know what outfits etc you like best too. also i am not a skinny girl (size 16 with 38ff bust) so please think about that before suggesting anything (plus size is prob best)
not got a budget starting early so i can buy things over next few months. want things we can use together. we use cock rings all the time, only started to get toys over last few months so still trial and error for us so thought asking others might help with ideas. OH just leaves me to order and is happy to go with whatever so though i would ask what other men like best (i know everone is different ) so i can pick things from that list he might like.
Size 16 and 38ff sounds pefect for a basque or corset. I like my OH (a similar build to you) to wear red and black. A bit tarty but sexy at the same time.
As for toys, buy a magic wand and use it on yourself to tease him first and then ask him to join in as you continue to give yourself the best orgasm ever.
They seem expensive, but trust me they are worth every penny.
I'm a 14/16 with HH boobs and I find open cup or body stocking are best as my boobs can't always get in things 😂 yours might just get in the normal sizes as the cups tend to be d-f 😀 my fave is the open cup body I've reviewed. I will grab you a link....
If I had this going on in my mouse my list would also include ALONE time, taking the kids out of the house so I could actually relax in the bath (with new bath products) LOL
I think your idea sounds lovely, don't forget some fun lube there is now a gin and tonic flavour... not my personal drink of choice but could be really fun for someone who does like G&T.
For fun little gifts I also think cock / ball rings are great . But for extended fun , I would recommend LH sexy card games . They are a fun start up for an evening of fun . You can pick out whatever sounds good to you . Super cheap and a good value , at least for us .
its a soft cock cage. You could go send him to put it on and make him wear it while your all together. I bet the frustration of being caged would get him very ready for playtime. It's a softer option for a beginner to these things, which I think you two would be. Don't underestimate the power of denial.