Hi out there ladies (and gentlemen),
I was wondering if anyone has any really superior resources they'd recommend to someone whose natural ability and talent is in giving oral sex, (plus I'm on a medication similar to codeine cough syrup round the clock for pain), and basically, the problem is not that I don't know what to do or how to do it. It's just that I think my style and routine and rotation pattern of different mouth positions and sensations is probably getting pretty... Predictable. I've been with my fiance since July. What can I do to spice things up? In fact, I'm wondering if I'm even going in the right direction trying to make oral sex better because I honestly feel like that's, "maxed out." So should I instead be trying to do things to surprise him or spice things up by doing things out of the ordinary like lingerie and candles, for example? (And that actually happens to be something I don't do). So I mean, should I even be focused on the sex act part at this point, or should I be working on the environment, and clothing, and other parts of the ritual instead?
I think you need to focus on what it is you both feel about the relationship and the sex side, before trying to focus on one thing.
Has he commented or mentioned something to start making you feel like this?
I think as well, calling sex a ritual is something to think about, as it should be fun, enoyable and passionate.
Just my thoughts.
Have you considered adding a stroker to the fun! I can help add some different sensations vs. a standard hand job and you can suck and lip the tip to give your jaw a break.
Now some men may not think toys are "for them' but it can really be a ton of fun if he has an open mind.
If you want you can watch blowjob specific porn for fresh ideas. i do sometimes. sometimes porn can be educational lol
NiceGuyNorthEast wrote:
I think you need to focus on what it is you both feel about the relationship and the sex side, before trying to focus on one thing.
Has he commented or mentioned something to start making you feel like this?
I think as well, calling sex a ritual is something to think about, as it should be fun, enoyable and passionate.
Just my thoughts.
Oh no, he's not mentioned any problems at all. He continually talks about how satisfied he is and so on and so forth. I just want to take, "the best," to even better if possible cause I'm so in love in the honeymoon phase right now, lol.
Have you considered adding a stroker to the fun! I can help add some different sensations vs. a standard hand job and you can suck and lip the tip to give your jaw a break.
Now some men may not think toys are "for them' but it can really be a ton of fun if he has an open mind.
I've definitely thought about it and suggested it and bought one, but it was a fleshlight and he didn't like it because it sort of took away from the fact that you can't give head over a sleeve. I hadn't thought about a stroker though. That sounds like an interesting idea! Are there any you'd recommend - and for a guy with an average penis size... Like 5.5-6.5 inches... Don't need any strokers that are gonna be too long, you know? Are there any LH products that have a lot of reviews with the guys liking the girls using a specific one of these on them a lot?
SquirtyPanda wrote:
If you want you can watch blowjob specific porn for fresh ideas. i do sometimes. sometimes porn can be educational lol
Lol! This is true. Good point.